well, I'm new and this my first forum, ever. I just disappointed by a guy. I know this not objective but I just want to know why guy can't say the truth? he always keep saying one thing and act differently.. thank u for anyone who could give a reason.
sebezh: well, I'm new and this my first forum, ever. I just disappointed by a guy. I know this not objective but I just want to know why guy can't say the truth? he always keep saying one thing and act differently.. thank u for anyone who could give a reason.
I thought all men did that Maybe it's just a "man thing"
Not really a reason, more of an excuse for them I know
sebezh: well, I'm new and this my first forum, ever. I just disappointed by a guy. I know this not objective but I just want to know why guy can't say the truth? he always keep saying one thing and act differently.. thank u for anyone who could give a reason.
He could even have a split personality or even be a Gemini. Many reasons or at least 3 why he is acting this way
moonmuffinKill Devil Hills, North Carolina USA72 posts
Welcome!! Believe it or not, they're not all like that. reasons-probably fear-not getting what they want, or losing something they already have. Who knows?
morganlee: Yes there are, and it's a shame that the actions of some cause people to
generalize (Men and women). I think some men behave this way because they haven't the
balls to be honest, and it's much easier to run away .
Hi Morgan...
U know, apart from the jokes and all that.....
I don't lie to anybody, particularly myself, but yes, I think you hit on a soft spot there.....
sometimes, one gets caught in a situation that is a bit tricky, especially were somebody's else emotions are concerned, so u just drag your feet on the issue with the hope that somehow the message gets tru without your having to be the one to say it out loud......
but it's got nothing to do with not having balls......wouldn't be mail without I guess....
I don't lie to anybody, particularly myself, but yes, I think you hit on a soft spot there.....
sometimes, one gets caught in a situation that is a bit tricky, especially were somebody's else emotions are concerned, so u just drag your feet on the issue with the hope that somehow the message gets tru without your having to be the one to say it out loud......
but it's got nothing to do with not having balls......wouldn't be mail without I guess....
I think alot of men have problems dealing with there own emotions, let alone someone else's partly
due conditioning from childhood that it's not macho to show awareness and sensitivty, changing more
in today's society maybe. They genuinely don't know how to cope so ignoring it is easier.
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