Everything is politic;your lifestyle,how much $ you earn,how much tax you pay ...etc. as for religion,even if your religiously atheist...your the worst enemy of Islam. There's no way to escape politic or religion,we live in nuts shall.
You remind me of a man who left religion after his son died from overdose of drug,he blamed everything and everybody...except he didn't had a hard look at himself...that he didn't spend enough time with family...instead chasing skirts...his wife could afford anything she wants but never had hasbuned with her... I am not saying that you did any of this things...Things can happen and we never know why...but there's no point blaming whole universe for what happened to you.
RE: females