I see this thread ended abrubtly after my statements...
So that means I either answered everyone's questions (unlikely) or pissed alot of you off... (much more likely)
Sorry if my personal experience seemed rudely stated or over-the-top, I didn't think so but hey...
Best wishes to all, if anyone has a further opinion, given some 100 views of this thread have occurred since I seemingly 'ended' it with my statement, someone out there must have an opinion. Lets hear it.
A quick word sweetie, there's no need to fear it too much, and now CS has this 'Friends' section, why not stay in touch wit your buddies on here??
If you have made your decision tho, I wish you the very best of luck, success, happiness and faith in watever you do honey! Enjoy that life and I hope he's not only a stud, but a gentleman!
Thats the nutshell I've been in for six months GG, you are so right on about this... all those things are the little important ones that have made me miss my girl sooo much recently, and knowing she's able to provide those for another has made it so much harder to deal with
THANKYOU GG, i think u and i are on the same page at the mo, let me tel u...
thanks buddy for speaking your mind and for it being so close to mine...
hey we all get bored darling... dont be scarred! but i wonder what a man would get as a response to such a post?? i imagine he'd just get a whole lotta laughs, not as much sympathy, and probly a heap of outdated feminist ear-bashing...
anyway riva, what wud u do to 'ease the tension' baby?
ahh, this thread got hijacked somethin chronic tho...
just drop us a line sometime riva darl it wud be good to hear from ya...
i agree with kawai to a point, a photo makes a profile seem much more real and less daunting to someone looking at it. you may miss out on quite a bit of interest without one
i have to say also that, i know some people have said be cautious on websites, and their not wrong, but unless you have actually given out your home address or phone number to someone on a site like this, your personal safety is assured here online... the only thing i can see that you 'risk' by letting it all out on a dating website is either no one answering or someone giving you a bad opinion... i'm scared of that too but fundamentally, you cant come to harm...
your safety isn't at risk though so just go for it man, have an opinion, let people see what u look like and see the big grin on your face that makes you happy because your doing what you want and lookin for love!
i understand people being sensitive about how they look, but unless the CIA or someone is after you, a photo is no risk and may make you feel more confident in your ability to attract interest. if it's truly an issue for you to show your face publicly, i do not mean to push and you do what you need to be comfortable. most people here you'll find are pretty accepting, very accepting!
hope u can settle in and become more relaxed and comfortable my good man...
its alright, 'tricks' refers to a metaphor for simply pleading with my lovely ex for her love again, showing her my true feelings and what i would do to be granted the most beautiful gift of being her partner again. i love this woman and would never play games with her heart or head, as confused as our relationship got, it was never games that made us hurt - adding mindgames or tricks to our situation would have caused us both to have a breakdown i reckon, as neither of us are like that, we're both too sensitive for that, and still care for one another too much to hurt each others feelings - we got angry alot, but only because of hurt...
sorry, i've rambled a bit and may be boring you, i also dont want you to think i was offended by anything you said, i just get worried that people may think i'm something i'm not. gee i sound like a headcase don't i? oh well, aren't we all sometimes?!! especially over love eh?!
listen, still rambling, but i am on that road, VERY slowly. have a good one mandrake, very good to hear from you, truly
hey if my words have influence on people, and it adds to change you feel in yourself, i'm so very glad to assist. to hear your own developmental thoughts was comforting, re-assuring. and i also wish you the very best in seeking yourself out in those very true and pure ways you mentioned.
i will admit the excitement of being single, but of course i'm still caught up in the complexities of how my last relationship ended. i still need her shoulder to cry on, but can't have it. dependency and miscommunication are rife, tonite being a huge example, but although the pain causes me some quite staggering bouts of grief, i know, in an undetermined time, i can be happy again.
My heart is broken. Gone. I need a repair job, can someone help? I know pleading from the heart can be considered unnatractive, but I'm at wits end and don't care. Anyone true to themselves will know where I'm coming from...
Here is a man who is truly in need. A man who has seen his mistakes and is living with their memory every day, with the very essence of his regret painfully reminding him every hour. The lesson is learnt and yet the pain continues. So, I weepingly ask if there is anyone out there who can help me take the pain away, who can banish it for good and to help me to never look back in sadness, and to cherish every moment with whoever you may be, and to know in my heart I am truly at one with another true and sincere human being.
I have tried and tried and have no more tricks up my sleeve, no more ways to tell myself I won't be lonely forever. I humbly ask the world and the God Himself for a very special privelidge: I ask to find someone. I ask to be able to find a wonderful girl who can, who WANTS to, see her man cry, cry for her man, never let him go, know he's there for her, try anything once because the outcome might be worth it, to know beyond knowledge that she would connect to me and nothing could break it. I also ask so very humbly for the frighteningly more special privelidge of finding you soon, my special person. I expect nothing, from humans or God, to expect is to demand (sort of), I only hope with all that remains of my heart for an end to this pain and for these joyous dreams to come true.
Truly anyone who this thread speaks to please reply to it. If you feel any instant affinity with my pain, don't hesitate to contact me.
I humbly and sincerely offer, to any soul out there crying with loneliness, to any soul out there that needs love, to any woman who could run to a man, who needs a rock, and could be for me a rock as well, and someone who just so empathises with how much they need someone close right now, and even if love wasn't to be found, we could teach each other that all will be OK. And let each other cry, and let out the pain...
I speak to all real human beings, all kind souls, and all beautiful people who want to respond. I ask as I am in a terrible way, any synics please keep your comments at bay as I am suffering enough. At this time. If you have a personal issue with me laying my heart out in this thread, please email me with your thoughts.
I would like to say thankyou to ANYONE who even read this post.
I'm not usually this outgoing publicly, but as I said I feel out of tricks, and cornered in to confessing to the world my pain, but hopefully I find someone...
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RE: hey u youngs guys wats the go?
I see this thread ended abrubtly after my statements...So that means I either answered everyone's questions (unlikely) or pissed alot of you off... (much more likely)
Sorry if my personal experience seemed rudely stated or over-the-top, I didn't think so but hey...
Best wishes to all, if anyone has a further opinion, given some 100 views of this thread have occurred since I seemingly 'ended' it with my statement, someone out there must have an opinion. Lets hear it.
Good spirit to all
Imzati