I absolutely agree with Izabela and thank her for her beautiful post! Of course there's not a formula for love. What has worked in the past for me? This is a great question! Now I'm single upon the last 3 years and, after all, I feel not so bad, living alone. Nevertheless I also think that nobody can survive in the long run without love! Honesty, loyalty, sincerity, the capability to listen the other, share together all the beautiful things that are around us both in the nature and among the humans and last, but not least, share and exchange the greatest ideas and emotions: all these things has well worked for me in my past relationships. Sorry, my english is not perfect because it's not my first language. I wish all the best to everyone in this forum.
RE: Is it worth trying to become a better person?
To become a better person is not only our main life challenge but also a real soul's need. I'm talking about personal improvement.In other words, this is the best way I know to give significance to our lives at any time.
This is my experience and also my personal evidence, as enthousiast self-learner (autodidactic) and long distance educator.
I wish all the best to everybody for the upcoming new year 2009.