Hi, yes i know what you are saying and i agree, but the question is why do these people think that they are going to find the answers by being who there not, the world is changing everyday so why be so igorant of that fact and noone ever knows who they are. many times i have seen this happen and the girls end up in a mess and run back to what they once have, but most times the other partner is gone. Meanwhile the man is left in such as mess her ends up lost. Sense I have had this done to me many months ago now, 3 of my mates have had the some thing done to them, what is going on. Is it drugs, alcohol, scholling WHAT!!!!! Please let us know so that we can be aware of it and not get breakebhearts in the future
cya Ken
PS. We never grew apart, the longer we were together the great the interests and bond.
I'm after an answer to a question on many peoples lips and i am doing research for a book, to help stop it happening or to work out what the hell is going on.
Here it is, I was in a relationship for 6 years and 3 of them engaged, the only reason 2 years ago why we never marriaged was the fact that her bridesmaid/ best friend got cancer, so we postponed it. The relationship was so good that many people thought we were perfect and a model relationship. We never argued, harsh word or the silent treatment, travelled the world together, worked as a team to create a very good business. Then one day out of the blue, she said "I am going, I love you, you are my best friend, you are perfect and we are perfect, but I can not be with you anymore, I don't know what i am doing is right or i want this, but i have to leave" she packed her bags and gone. oh yes she is in her late 20's.
The question I want help with is, WHY do people do this to one another and don't care what they do to others at the same time? and is there something that people can do to stop it.?
I have been so hurt that i have been in and out of hospital, and very very sick.
Jun2007KF Forum Posts (4)
WHY are people so cruel and not satisfied.
Hi,yes i know what you are saying and i agree, but the question is why do these people think that they are going to find the answers by being who there not, the world is changing everyday so why be so igorant of that fact and noone ever knows who they are.
many times i have seen this happen and the girls end up in a mess and run back to what they once have, but most times the other partner is gone.
Meanwhile the man is left in such as mess her ends up lost.
Sense I have had this done to me many months ago now, 3 of my mates have had the some thing done to them, what is going on.
Is it drugs, alcohol, scholling WHAT!!!!!
Please let us know so that we can be aware of it and not get breakebhearts in the future
cya Ken
PS. We never grew apart, the longer we were together the great the interests and bond.