I am trying CS too , to find "Ms Right" after 7 Years partnership! But however the first replys that came was nice woman wanting me to give my email for further contact... Yep Scammers... of course I fell for it first! But due to my Job and knowledge I backtrace and give them Keywords that there Bosses don`t like and they do a full stop!
Now to the minor problem of most kandidates here (Men or Woman)is... They have so much choice in candidates here, that they choose the "a++" looking ones and forget about the brilliant "b" and "c" candidates! I mean who of us in real life has had a "Richard Gere" or "Julia Roberts" for example? Of course it is natural in our head to go for perfection. But what do you want with a pin up Woman or Man that is as intelligent as a brush and you are all the time worried where He/she is and others trying to get in Bed with them at all time! Do you want that stress ?? I have had that ! In Russia they say : "From a tasty dinner plate, many people will eat" Meaning that these A++ looking people know that and just jump from one to another! (Of course there is a handful that except the rule ...)
I just smile at women that I drop a line or put them in the favourites and get no reply because they are looking for "Mr.Perfect" and not for "Mr.Good" ! It is sometimes hard, but just smile and carry on .Only you know what chance the missed for a great life with you! And last but not least. You can not force love! The right one out there is definetly there waiting! You only can do 1 mistake, not seeing him / her!
So good look to you all here finding the right one.
RE: "Just Saying",,,My CS Experience has been!!!,,,& How about your's???
Hi there,I am trying CS too , to find "Ms Right" after 7 Years partnership! But however the first replys that came was nice woman wanting me to give my email for further contact... Yep Scammers... of course I fell for it first! But due to my Job and knowledge I backtrace and give them Keywords that there Bosses don`t like and they do a full stop!
Now to the minor problem of most kandidates here (Men or Woman)is...
They have so much choice in candidates here, that they choose the "a++" looking ones and forget about the brilliant "b" and "c" candidates! I mean who of us in real life has had a "Richard Gere" or "Julia Roberts" for example? Of course it is natural in our head to go for perfection. But what do you want with a pin up Woman or Man that is as intelligent as a brush and you are all the time worried where He/she is and others trying to get in Bed with them at all time! Do you want that stress ?? I have had that ! In Russia they say : "From a tasty dinner plate, many people will eat" Meaning that these A++ looking people know that and just jump from one to another! (Of course there is a handful that except the rule ...)
I just smile at women that I drop a line or put them in the favourites and get no reply because they are looking for "Mr.Perfect" and not for "Mr.Good" ! It is sometimes hard, but just smile and carry on .Only you know what chance the missed for a great life with you!
And last but not least. You can not force love! The right one out there is definetly there waiting! You only can do 1 mistake, not seeing him / her!
So good look to you all here finding the right one.
Greetings from Germany
Mister Good (not Mr. Perfect!!)