So many good member here are good adviser so I thought I ask for one. Here goes... I met a nice man from here an hour flight away ( from UK) for 4months now and we tried to meet up every two weeks for few days (because of work that's only we can manage at the moment) and every time we have a lovely time together . He is a very caring and gentleman in every way but few months now I feel something is missing, I know maybe it's still early but I have to courage to ask him if he loves me, and he replied he knows how much I love him and care for him but he said his feeling is not as strong and same as that and only care very much for me and good friendship. So I asked him what he wants to do carry on as we are now and see in few months what happen but he replied I don't know what we should do.. Now here is my dilemma , should I stay with this relationship hoping he will change but I doubt it or go now?? It's very hard to decide so please help... Thank you in advance xx
Members here are very good in giving advice and opinion here so I thought I asked for one.. Here goes .. I live in Germany and I chat and met a wonderful man on this site but were an hour flight away. After chatting here for nearly 6 weeks we decide to meet up so he came to Germany for few days and that went well and after 2 weeks he came again , then after 2weeks I went to see him in UK, that went well too and we both had a lovely time together.So I suggest that we meet up every 2 weeks, and he replied maybe we take it a bit slower. So at first I think what happen there did he get a cold feet..you see I'm a very affectionate and loving person and after 2 months I told him I love him , because that how I feel for him I want to tell him and show to him what I feel. But he said to early to say the word Love.. So what is love , how do you describe love? And if you're in a long distance relationship how often you should meet up and what I should do to keep this wonderful long distance relationship I describe love something you care for someone , your happy when your with him, you look forward to do things together..
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Would you stay in relationship only caring and good relationship with out love?
So many good member here are good adviser so I thought I ask for one.Here goes...
I met a nice man from here an hour flight away ( from UK) for 4months now and we tried to meet up every two weeks for few days (because of work that's only we can manage at the moment) and every time we have a lovely time together . He is a very caring and gentleman in every way but few months now I feel something is missing, I know maybe it's still early but I have to courage to ask him if he loves me, and he replied he knows how much I love him and care for him but he said his feeling is not as strong and same as that and only care very much for me and good friendship.
So I asked him what he wants to do carry on as we are now and see in few months what happen but he replied I don't know what we should do..
Now here is my dilemma , should I stay with this relationship hoping he will change but I doubt it or go now?? It's very hard to decide so please help... Thank you in advance xx