First pick her up and have a dozen red roses for her with a little card attached saying something sweet. Then we would head out to a nice candle lite dinner at a nice place, after that hit a dance club with some live music maybe a good DJ spend the nite dancing away. Then head home relax and have some candles going, music set and a full body massage. and yes i have done that honestly.
RE: It Hurts So Bad
Well you can't give up on your daughter!! always let her know that you love her no matter what and if you can call her if that is possible.