Some people just don't like the thought of being on their own so they stay in a relationship out of fear of being single. It's hard to make the break even if your not happy as you don't know what to expect or if your ever going to meet anyone else. Once you make the break though you feel a weight being lifted. Everyone deals with it in different ways.
Thanks Lilylashes your a star, we'll see how long it takes for him at all to get back in touch with some great excuse! defo won't fall for that one! Hope yur mate is ok though & got it all sorted out!
Thanks for the update ladies, I've met my share of idiots in my time I your honesty. I sent him a mail telling him whatI had found out and he said he was shocked, if it's not true and there's nothing to hide he should have explained. Instead he has chosen to ignore me now. Too long in the tooth now to put up with any nonsense. Didn't read all the other posts properly but caught up now. Cheers,
When did all this happen as I have been talking to him for months and he said that he moved from Cork a while ago and is now in Tallaght and single? Anyone got any advise on what to do? What did he do that was so wrong and to your mate?
Exact position I was in, we still feel the same but until he makes a decision then we can't see each other. It's just not easy to let go. It's all about timing and it wasn't right for all concerned so it had to stop but falling in love with someone you can't have is the hardest thing to let go of.
RE: why do people lead you on in a relationship lets say..........
Some people just don't like the thought of being on their own so they stay in a relationship out of fear of being single. It's hard to make the break even if your not happy as you don't know what to expect or if your ever going to meet anyone else. Once you make the break though you feel a weight being lifted. Everyone deals with it in different ways.