haha very nice. decent, someone who looks for whats on the inside, someone who knows how to treat someone else right..... ummm something along those lines
joined simply in hope of meetin some friends, maybe a partner, later found the forums, now mainly on here for them, still in hope of a life partner to come along someday......
i heard on the radio today that alot of people believe that if ur 10, on a scale of attractiveness, that ur better off with another 10, and if ur a 1, u will never have a 10, and need to stick with 1s. i personally think this is wrong, ive been with an 4, and i would consider myself a 7 or 8. i had alot of fun with her, then ive also been with another 7 or 8 and was absolutely miserable. whats your alls thoughts?
why thank you, umm yea i mean people have there preferences i guess, me its what is on the inside, but thats me. i think a person should get to know someone, just as a friend, and see where it goes, maybe no where, but at least u made a friend
ok last night everyone put there two cents in on my question why women wont date someone thats a dwarf, and looks. now, since we answered that, would you actually date a kind hearted dwarf?
thank you for the post pikengren, there is alot of b.s. out there, and yea i dont agree with alot of stuff, and no not one person can change the world, but i would love to show someone that life isnt just about your "preference" in a relationship or even just a friend. people come in many ways, in and out. as u said loud mouths may get alot of attention this us subtle guys, that may still be confident, but on a quiet level, may not. a friend is a friend who comes in any form, a dog whatever, but never choose because of what we are, choose by who we are inside, if its not a match its not a match, but show the respect to show someone the time of day, and just say hi how are you, and u never know, you may make a best friend or even a soulmate. i know i wont give an opportunity up to make a friend. life is too short, to show disgust of someone who may be ugly, short and weird, freaky, or whatever one of my great friends has a humpback, and shes is the coolest person i know.
thank you for that, it shows that not all women are ignorant i guess u would say. i have nothing bad to say about anyone who responded tonight, even if i dont agree, i thank everyone for puttin in there 2 cents. and i would love for every person to add me, dont hate me because i feel the way i do, but everyone is welcome to hit me up anytime, about anything. jayde u sound like an amazing woman, havent even checked ur pro yet, but thank you again and best of luck to everyone on here.
ive seen it from both sides tonight and im not sayin anyone is right or wrong in this, i just believe when it really comes down to looks and age and all that should never matter when making a new friend, that yes could possibly lead to something stronger later. as i tell my daughter, never let an opportunity to make a new friend pass u by, because in 10 years, ur still friends, and u may both realize wow we are meant to be together, i just ask from anyone just give me the time of day to say hi, talk to me for a minute if u got it, and if it goes nowheres then it doesnt but dont ignore me because you think im a freak or whatever
it makes alot of sense, im the same way dont want to be told what to do when to do it, or how. but like u said within reason i will comply. in my life yea in a way its controlled by my daughter, and im fine with that. she deserves the best, just as any child. she has not taken anything from me, shes the one girl/woman whatever n my life that has never judged me for what i look like, simply loved me for me, and bec im there for her to take care of her, people need to learn alot from a child instead of the opposite
thanks man, appreciate it, no i know all this and i hate no one for it, im just sayin its a topic that makes no sense, hell if i knew the guys on here wouldnt think i was gay or whatever i would hit them up just for a guy talk u know, just make friends, im the kind of person i love takin five minutes of my time, just to get to know someone, no matter who they are. everyone deserves that chance in life.
im not sayin that theres no one out there for me, and im not sayin i just want to jump into something, i just think its funny how a woman cannot have a convo with me without feelin weird, doesnt mean we have to date, just talk, ask me questions if u have them, thats what pisses us off the most, u all assume and 99 percent of the time ur wrong. really if i got on here imed or emailed one of u simply sayin i thought u was an interesting person, and i would like to get to know u, just to get to know u, who knows where it will go, maybe no where, but u see im a dwarf, are u gonna give me the time? no u wont, because u all assume oh hes short, thats weird, and never respond or hell even block me, when all i did was try to make a friendship. so i should be banned out just because im different, screw that
i may not date just any girl i see, but not because of her looks, i will give any woman a chance. if we have nothin in common and we dont feel it emotionally then its not meant to happen. but yes any woman crippled or whatever i would give a chance to talk to me and get to know me. like i said looks and all that is overated, dont get me wrong i get attention, but generally those people, are just lookin for the easy way out, once there around me and see everyone starin which i never notice, its my life, they run, because they cant handle it.
well trust me, if u was a dwarf, and dealt with what we did everyday, u might have one too, nothin against brad pitt, or any other guy out there, but no one is better then me in any way, and im not better then anyone in any way. i would love to see a woman, prove me wrong on this, to give a good guy a chance, and see that its not about me on the outside. yea i may sound mad right now, but hell u cant completely blame me.
whats to fear, i dont bite, and im a person just like u. no different just shorter. i have two eyeballs, two hands, etc. so really how am i any different from brad pitt. yea he makes alot of money, hes a good lookin guy, but whos to say hes not the biggest a**hole in the world. the way i see it nice guys should finish first, and women always say thats what they want, but they throw it away just because some of us are not brad pitts. sounds stupid to me. and yes even dwarfs can be asses, and turn down certain women. but even to them i say there idiots for passin up what could be an opportunity of a lifetime.
yea you should have your choice of who u would like to get to know, but if someone is interested in you, and no other offers anything like that, are u gonna turn down what could be a chance of a lifetime, dont get me wrong guys are buttholes, and what not but thats the whole point in gettin to know someone. i would date someone that i found unattractive, but made me laugh, happy, enjoyed there company, before someone that was gorgeous, and had nothin in common with. really ur soulmate could be right beside you but if u dont give it time to develope or even give that person a chance, look at what u missed. i dont have preferences, its overated
im happy with who i am too, but im sorry when it comes down to it, i dont care about what someone looks like, or how tall, thats not life, its about someone that u can laugh with, grow old with, just be yourself around no matter what. this world has come to a conclusion that you have to have a preference, and that height may be an issue. really thats crap, just to make convo you gotta be 6'0 dark hair and handsome, seriously makes no sense. sounds like a bunch of bull
not all men are dickheads and selfish, u just got mixed with the wrong one. us sweet guys, that love romance and dont drink, drugs, or whatever makes us so bad, were out there. but women when they find that guy, they get scared, bec they are so used to the dickheads, and then the nice guys decide to try to be the dickhead, just because the nice guys always finish last. and finishin last sucks.
yep, that is very true. i mean look at all these dating sites now, think about how many people on here you can actually talk to, or try to... you could meet someone on here, because of the large selection, especially if your the guy with the huge muscles and six pack, or the girl with the greatest looking body in the world.. but at least you get to know them before you have to meet them.. i think i have gone through probably 20 people on here and still looking, but at least i know i have my selection, instead of jumpin into something. people say these sites are useless, really there not, if you really get to know someone, and make that click, it could really go far, without really any major damage. but the society always puts down something that works and makes sense. gotta love the society these days...
i have noticed for my chemistry with people and theres for me, usually, they feel it then after they know they want that chemistry they take it to another step, then the chemistry dies.. other times girls say they feel it and run... so i dont know much about chemistry... good luck to everyone else.... i believe there is a type of chemistry that when you feel it you dont want to let it go, like you said in the beginning its a real slow chemistry, thats deeper, i really dont believe in love at first sight, i thought i felt it once, and it died when the girl stopped calling, so now i just talk to a bunch of people at once, and the ones who are truely interested in you, will stick around, the ones who arent, will run away...... but hey love is tough, and chemistry plays a big role these days.
jonesy23 Forum Posts (214)
what time? haha
Is there any decent women out there?
haha very nice. decent, someone who looks for whats on the inside, someone who knows how to treat someone else right..... ummm something along those lines