Thank you Baltica!I think you are right about Eastern Europe.We really long were far away from western culture. I mean that in this question about marriage I'm conservative... but not at all in others
Very interesting question!Can find something with what I agree in all answers above. I like what told Flower-that "...not the marriage vows that count,but the actual commitment between 2 people involved ..." But I agree and with Maruska,when she told "...if you are not ready for marriage,then you are not ready to commit yourself to..." That is just choice of two how is better for them to live together- with marriage,or without it. Just I think,that in simple living together you showing for your partner that you still have a doubts "in his or her love forever" And really wonderful when all ending like in Baltica case-they got married.This living was just like some kind of test for love. And I think,that if you met right person,you both are in love and sure about it,and want to spend rest of your life together-marriage is the best way to show it.Maybe I'm conservative,but I think women always feel themselves better in marriage,more safe. I have been in both situation.And now can tell without any doubts that my choice is marriage with right person,when both want it and are ready for it. For me,like for Maruska,weding party -just immediate family and close friends in beautiful place. Most important to spend life together with somebody who made you feel complete at last ,about which you can tell that he or she is your soulmate,your life man or woman My choice to live in marriage isn't man with whom I can live,but a man without whom I can't to live
Yes,I am Taurean and I agree with your words about them. But my Venus is in Aries And what that mean?What that gave to my personality?Who knows and can explain it?
And what is bad if they want to leave their home??They are grown and want to find their place in the world,to see new countries,to find new vista in life.I think that is wonderful! I'm glad that our kids have chances to choose what they want and don't need spend all their lives hanging on mum's or dad's neck They can choose their wifes,their jobs,can live independent from superstitious beliefs But that not making them to love their mums less .They like an Eastern people love and need their mums. I have two grown sons and am very proud of them And I know how much they love me and care about me,even if they live far away.And I'm sure that lots of mums think and feel the same.Living together all life really not making to love more or less.I think sometimes maybe even can make more problems between understanding each other I mean that between old pearents,who need silence and quite times,and young kids who need loud music,parties at night and all other stuff,sometimes can start talks at cross-purposes And is really better when kids have their home and we can visit each other when just we want to
RE: marriage vs living together
Thank you Baltica!I think you are right about Eastern Europe.We really long were far away from western culture.I mean that in this question about marriage I'm conservative... but not at all in others