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RE: Is too much commitment not good?

Some studies may say that total or over commitment will come back to bite you. But i say not all people fit into all studies. I for one will give all that i am to the one i seek because that is what i wish in return. I do not want just part of them but all their heart and commitments. That is not to say i wish him to be at my side and at my every call there is the real world to contend with and life in general. Work and outside friends. But i do want a place in which i can escape into and feel as if it is only us for even just a little while. A place that can only be found in this over commitment as you or they call it. A place that only we two share. I crave that closeness i have never been able to find with another. That is why i am still seeking. It is studies like these of which you speak that makes it hard to find what i seek. i know it is a risk but isn't life a risk? Just geting in a car and driving around or crossing a busy street or getting in an airplane and flying somewhere, taking a cruise. we risk our lives everyday to transport ourselves from one place to the other yet we guard our hearts.