it really isnt a matter of "who to trust", but more of learning to trust yourself before you can trust another. yes it is true that there are many out there who will prey on the insecurities of others for some silly and childish goal... from both genders. some of these people are quite cruel in their methods and hide who they really are quite well. it is a shame, but a fact of life. anyone who tells you that you should not express your emotions are probably not a good bet. anyone who truly cares for you will be understanding and be there to hold you and listen to those feelings. if they cant be there to hold you... just to listen and offer support and comfort. we have all endured the losers in society, they are out there, and thye never stop looking for anew victim. a friend once told me this... we must suffer the losers in life in order to find the one we were really meant to be with. they serve a purpose if for no other reason then to teach us of what it is we dont want, and help us to learn within ourselves who we are and who it is we really need. when the day comes that we have learned the things were were meant to learn, and prepare us for the one we are meant for... that person will come along and both will know a happiness that many dream of, but few ever find.
i dont know if that helps... but is sounded like good wisdom to me :).
When I got home last night, my wife demanded that I take her someplace expensive - so, I took her to a gas station.
******************************************************** After retiring, I went to the Social Security office to apply for Social Security. The woman behind the counter asked me for my driver's license to verify my age. I looked in my pockets and realized I had left my wallet at home. I told the woman that I was very sorry, but I would have to go home and come back later The woman said, 'Unbutton your shirt'. So I opened my shirt revealing my curly silver hair. She said, 'That silver hair on your chest is proof enough for me' and she processed my Social Security application. When I got home, I excitedly told my wife about my experience at the Social Security office. She said, 'You should have dropped your pants. You might have gotten disability, too'
My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion, and I kept staring at a drunken lady swigging her drink as she sat alone at a nearby table. My wife asked, 'Do you know her?' 'Yes,' I sighed, 'She's my old girlfriend. I understand she took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since.' 'My God!' says my wife, 'Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'
I rear-ended a car this morning. So, there we were alongside the road and slowly the other driver got out of his car. You know how sometimes you just get soooo stressed and little things just seem funny? Yeah, well I couldn't believe it.... he was a DWARF!!! He stormed over to my car, looked up at me, and shouted, 'I AM NOT HAPPY!!!' So, I looked down at him and said, 'Well, then which one are you?'
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RE: Who To Trust
it really isnt a matter of "who to trust", but more of learning to trust yourself before you can trust another. yes it is true that there are many out there who will prey on the insecurities of others for some silly and childish goal... from both genders. some of these people are quite cruel in their methods and hide who they really are quite well. it is a shame, but a fact of life. anyone who tells you that you should not express your emotions are probably not a good bet. anyone who truly cares for you will be understanding and be there to hold you and listen to those feelings. if they cant be there to hold you... just to listen and offer support and comfort. we have all endured the losers in society, they are out there, and thye never stop looking for anew victim.a friend once told me this...
we must suffer the losers in life in order to find the one we were really meant to be with. they serve a purpose if for no other reason then to teach us of what it is we dont want, and help us to learn within ourselves who we are and who it is we really need. when the day comes that we have learned the things were were meant to learn, and prepare us for the one we are meant for... that person will come along and both will know a happiness that many dream of, but few ever find.
i dont know if that helps... but is sounded like good wisdom to me :).