Once upon a time I packed up and moved to another country to start a new life with my "true love". Didn't work out so well for me so although I still believe it can work and if someone is willing to work at it it could be a wonderful thing... I'm headshy now and want to have a chance to spend time with someone so I can get to know them really well. And I doubt I would pull up anchor and move somewhere again, need to have stability and safety for my children and myself. So when someone from a distant land contacts me I let them know it's probably not going to happen because I don't want to waste their time.
RE: Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Once upon a time I packed up and moved to another country to start a new life with my "true love". Didn't work out so well for me so although I still believe it can work and if someone is willing to work at it it could be a wonderful thing... I'm headshy now and want to have a chance to spend time with someone so I can get to know them really well. And I doubt I would pull up anchor and move somewhere again, need to have stability and safety for my children and myself. So when someone from a distant land contacts me I let them know it's probably not going to happen because I don't want to waste their time.