Well here is the answer to that question. Communication. Ask questions. Don't interrogate (he will run for the hills) Comunication is the backbone to all good relationships. If he/she is not willing to talk about what they want and who they are now or in the past then chances are they are hiding something. IF they can't communicate about the little things, god your in trouble when it comes to finances, children and the future.
Early on find out what his long term goals and aspirations are. IF they don't mirror yours or come close. Don't waste your time or his. Move on.
I agree with the other member who said get to know the person, until you do it will be hard to tell if they are fake or not. Don't fall quickly.
I've not found mine either but I have met some wonderful people who i consider to be some of my closest friends now.
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RE: What are some of the signs that someone is not who they sat they are
Well here is the answer to that question. Communication. Ask questions. Don't interrogate (he will run for the hills) Comunication is the backbone to all good relationships. If he/she is not willing to talk about what they want and who they are now or in the past then chances are they are hiding something. IF they can't communicate about the little things, god your in trouble when it comes to finances, children and the future.Early on find out what his long term goals and aspirations are. IF they don't mirror yours or come close. Don't waste your time or his. Move on.
I agree with the other member who said get to know the person, until you do it will be hard to tell if they are fake or not. Don't fall quickly.
I've not found mine either but I have met some wonderful people who i consider to be some of my closest friends now.
Good Luck