Finding the right mate is not like shooting fish in a barrel. Love is something very rare and to deny someone from being loved like that is wrong. Sometime down the road you will both resent the choice you made to settle. It is always better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
If you have to ask, move on. Do her a favor and let her find someone who will love her totally for who she is not because you settled on her. How hard is that to figure out?
RE: What qualities do you look for
Right now a quick plane trip to Melbourne would be good.