Live for the future grow and learn from the past. You will know when the time is right to take the next step. It is not fair on the new partner if your stuck in the past thinking of the ex. For some it takes longer than 5 months. Broken hearts are mended by coming to terms with a loss, not dwelling on them.
RE: Obsessive compulsive or just idiosyncrasies
Does that mean if I use different coloured pegs my clothes wont dry?Big mantlepiece!!!!!!!!