I've only messaged 2 ladies on here so I cannot really comment. Both of them were over 1200 kms away and I'm at a loss to understand why they contacted me.
It really depends on the man. For myself, I have sons who are 19 and 22 and if I met a lady who had children it wouldn't bother me. It wouldn't matter what age they were if I was keen on the mother. I would keep a watchful "fatherly eye" on their safety etc and help when needed.
Some guys dislike responsibility or feel that someone else's kids aren't their problem. Perhaps they are selfish and want you only and no added children etc .... as I said, it depends on the man.
RE: Ive been here......have u been too...
Have you been to hans inlet?No, I haven't
Have you been to St George ?