I think a long profile is good... because if someone is really interested in you , he need to know a lot about you.... and he will spend time to know u... so by this u also get an idea that if some one is interested in you and he is spending some time and effort to know u .... that's very good
RE: woman approaches man first in a bar
Follow ur heart.....do whatever u like..... every thing happening has a reason and learning ...........