I know the feeling... not easy to meet people with real intentions but as the Italians say... la speranza e ultima a morire... "hope is the last thing to die"
It is not you... at times the contact is not even made as people dont even bother to reply.. a simple hi or thank you but not interested... then as many stated... the contact fades cause of long delays... at times I wonder if certain people are genuinely here to meet and chat or just place a profile for the sake of having a profile!
RE: MALTA .... What`s the weather like there in May (generally)?
A light jacket will be fine. It starts getting warmer at the end of the month