This post is going great folks! I never expected this many responses altough some are a little weird, won't say which ones, (LOL). But keep it up. I love it!
If it's not learned over the course of a lifetime then yes, he can't SUDDENLY become great. But a man that HAS learned would be a BETTER lover than he was in his youth. CORRECT? Same with a woman.
From posting on many other sites and being a musician I know that you can't please everyone. I'm saying BETTER, not to compare them to anyone, but to show the quality. Guess you're right. I'd better shutup! LOL!
Again, I am generalizing, older men as opposed to younger men. I have a son that is nearly 30 and all his young adult life has been wham, bam.... Of course he has the looks to do it too. LOL! And I don't know what your men are like in your country.
You will find exceptions to everything if you look hard enough. I'm generalizing here. You can't really reply to this using a bad personal experience of your own.
I always look for a friend first. It has to be that way because a friend will show you what their intenions are. It will give you both time to decide if you can become more. I don't care what the other person has. My late wife had nothing but a good heart. We became fast friends first and it developed into a 20 year relationship. Best I'd ever had. But I must say that, on our first actual date when I first saw her, I wondered what the hell am I getting myself into. All my friends told me to dump her because she was crazy. No one saw the inner person that she was keeping bottled inside so that no one could hurt her again. Once released, she was the best woman I've ever known!!!
YES, of course, most do. And why? Because they've found out in later life that a woman is far too precious to hurt, that pleasure is a 2-way street and, having "been around the block a few times", they know where all the "doors" are and when to "knock" on them. LOL!
Here is an excerpt from one young lady that had the same question asked of her: "I think so. I dated a man that was 17 years older then me, and he was a great lover. He was not there just for himself. He took care of my needs also. Now, I am not knocking the young guys,but, it seems when it comes to making love, it is all about what they want, and when they get it, well...........it is just over./nothing can replace experience!!!!!"
Need I say more? They, by nature, are more caring for their partner, are more able to actally BE a partner rather than a "wham, bam thank you maam", (and usualy without the thank you). They are usually not interested in one night stands but to actually get know the other person. Yeah, maybe, the stamina isn't there like it once was but what would you rather have? A hard and heavy session that usually doesn't last that long or a more detailed one where your every whim and desire is looked after? I, for one, am really MORE interested in pleasing my partner than I am myself. I've found that, if she's happy, you BOTH are!!!
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RE: iowa is it that f..king boring hear ?
Hey. Learn how to spell.