i agree with u in most part but your philosophy gets jilted toward the end,as much as u think u are correct in 'filling the selfishness of another',u never know (as all us)who & what type partner u will acquire...u may get somebody with exactly same line of thinking as yourself & will try fullfilling your selfishness to please u??our fates are all unknown so it only hypathetical what we all assume...
if u took matieralism,financial gain & u both on even terms to begin with,with nothing to benefit apart from being together...u dont think there is possibility can actually grow together & be soul mates??
sawadee ka juschecking,can expect the unexexpected,u are sure neither of them love u so u must think to yourself how can these girls benefit from u?the motives will come to light if u awake to it all
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