DownInJungleland Forum Posts (2)

RE: which more hurt?

One of my ex's cheated on me for months with my best friend. They covered it up pretty good. Needless to say I don't speak to either of them anymore, and it hurt a whole hell of a lot.

My most recent breakup was my bf telling me he didn't have that feeling for me anymore. He apparently loves me to death, but not in that way? I dunno... that hurt pretty bad. I guess it was because it was so sudden, unexpected, and it hurt both of us. He was more tied into my family than the aforementioned ex. I think when the bf/gf ISN'T trying to hurt you is when it hurts the most. You know they aren't trying to be hurtful, but they really are no matter what.

RE: How do you feel about eHarmony ? Please Read !

eHarmony is awful, in my opinion. I hate how you have to pay a GOOD chunk of money to use it properly. I had no idea, but I went out for the day and came back to find it said I had 3 emails and an IM, yet I can't view any of that because I wasn't a paid subscriber. Not only that, but it won't let me view who has viewed my profile either. You can't even look at someone's picture!! I don't want to pay for 6 months and I think $40 for one month is out of control.


Match.com wasn't as bad. At least on there you can look at their full profile and pictures. Still can't really contact anybody though.