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guess what

All she said is "woman to woman, you are not the only girl he has on the side...and if you need me to reference anything with kevin or want to talk heres my number"

guess what

He wants me to actually go down there when hes on leave in feb.

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Yea...maybe thats why I was a little confused vecause it hasnt really been an online thing it was more us calling and texting each other 24/7 so I didnt really see red flags in this situation

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Ok well I have seen him on cam on many occasions..but yea I did get a call from him saying his ex came to pick up there dog because hes coming home for christmas...well he said she went through his phone while he was sleeping and he didnt even know she texted me..that they got in a full fight when he found her still in the place. Now the decision is...do I believe him? He still plans on coming here the day after christmas.

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It was him. Sorry to drown in my sorrows. Just fed up.

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I give up on online dating. I just got a text from a wife saying please stop talking to my husband. First I knew he had a wife when weve talked for a year. We planned on meeting up in 2weeks. Awesome...

:(

Online dating struggles. What to do?

Thank you all for the advice :)

Online dating struggles. What to do?

Ok so I'll try shortening this as much as possible. On a different site I met a guy named Kevin in January who is 24..and at the time was stationed in Afghanistan. Soon after we talked for a bit on the interent he called me here and there, as much as he could due to being over seas. We had a spurt where we didn't talk for 2 months, but since he has been back in the states we talk on a day basis. In all honesty I can't say I've ever met anyone where I can talk to for hours upon hours a day and not get bored. I also don't compare him to my ex, which is a first. Well we decided to meet each other...and finally figured out that in the end of the month he is coming up to see me. We are both really excited ect ect....I found out 2 days ago that he re-enlisted in the army for a 3rd term..but this time he will be in Germany for 3 YEARS! The fact that this is happening is kinda...sorta...depressing. He was telling me on the phone he didn't know if it was the right choice anymore and he was questioning it...and I'm pretty sure its because of our situation and what may come from it. Should I just give up to I don't affect his future, or just take the punches as they come?

Oh No!

I have 3 days off a week and go back to normal schedule.

Oh No!

Well I did date this guy for a few months back and its not like our schedules don't work at all. He works 7am-5pm I work 11pm-7am. But yes I think I shall just quit looking and let them come to me :)

Oh No!

Here's a random side note. Is having different work shifts a valid reason not to date? But still would like to be friends with benefits?

Oh No!

Of course not! I was praying on the cougarrrresss men.
Ha!

Oh No!

Perhaps that will work! But I have a few allergies to note


ALLERGIES: Duct tape, Crazy glue

Oh No!

I was attacked by a wild cougar.

Oh No!

I'm broken and I'm in need of repairs
Who is out there to help :) haha.

Why do we do this

It's not really trying to find the elusive other, its more of comparing past relationships with new. If that makes any sense at all.

Why do we do this

Is our biggest fear really of being alone? Why do we stoop so low to fill that void when we can't acheive what we "had" or want we "want". Even when it's not rational?
Maybe I just think this way...but I have no clue why at least I for one do all of this.

Whats your thoughts on this?

Ha yes I totally agree, I was just thinking about it today. I use to wrestle in high school and I remember boys forfeiting against me because I was a girl. It sucked. Just wanted to see if views have changed since 5 years ago.

Whats your thoughts on this?

I was just wondering what most people think about when they think of women in wrestling...as in high school/college/olympic and such. Are you against it? Do you think woman should not wrestle men?

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

A compass without the spindle on my lower part of my arm the inner part :)

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

I just feel like all this came out of nowwhere, its like I left on vacation for a week then boom he gives me this. Kinda disapointing.

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

OOOO tafff! I'm getting another tattoo :)

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

now*

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

I know see the light! Thanks for the translation made it 100 times easier :) haha

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

This one was the same age as me, I haven't really dated anyone much older just about a year older. There isn't much to choose from here!

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

lol I like that, "tithead", I'll have to use that next time I feel like name-calling haha.

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

I'm just sick of the same "your the great girl" line lol heard it way to many times.

Real Meaning behind this or what do you see

"Its because your a great girl and I just could'nt get my heart into it...I tried but I just couldn't love you and I didnt wanna drag things out."

This is the response when I asked the true meaning behind my breakup.

He first told me he just didn't know what he wanted.

Please Translate

RE: Tell a lie about the person above you

Was the lightweight champ boxer from transylvania

RE: Tell a lie about the person above you

Goes on acid trips watching billy mays infomercials. Then walks his dog skipper for 3 hours.

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