I can recomend "Eastern Promises" Cronenburgs last flim...he has finlay moved beyond his schlocky roots, outstanding..and got to love the tattoo's and the naked knife fight...lol
I think that everyone has something to offer, and that attractiveness comes in many guises...
I think this whole older man/woman vs younger man/woman is all based on just the allure of someone different to you. When you see that someone is not like you it lends a slight exoticness to the attraction, this can be differences in age, or culture, nationality, race, etc...
In the end though you realise people are people, and that it is more the individual person that is attractive, and not just the difference...
However should someone want a sugar daddy or a toy boy...sign me up..;)
RE: The 'Either/Or' Game...
Hmmm...Beach..