YES! THIS is all so very true... As men get older, when they look at a woman, they often wonder, "What guy is paying for that house?"... Is she going to do the same thing to me? Is she hung up on fairytales and fantasy going into the relationship?
Men stand to lose BIG for even giving a woman their names these days. Look at California... ANY woman can get knocked-up and apply for public assistance and all the need to do is point to a man and say HE is the father and BAM! No DNA, no other paternity testing is ordered and the guy gets slammed with a child support award that stays with you through life...
TRY to fight it and you get slammed even harder... So the men are just supposed to shut up and pay.
Thank you N.O.W. and the sisterhood of wenches that stepped outside of the Bible's teaching and created a hell for the next 3 to 5 generations to come.
As I always state on issues like this... PROVE ME WRONG!
There is only one way to get married, THAT is specified in the Bible.
Once we moved away from the fundamental principals of life and try to life the Liberal lifestyle, everything goes to hell.
THAT is because there is no FOUNDATION to support what you are trying to do.
Unless we first understand the fundamental foundations, only then can we move forward with something of solid worth.
All too many women are swayed by the feminist society that was born back in the late 60's and early 70's and THAT spread across the world like a cancer.
You find a way to stop THAT and you will be on the start of creating life long commitment and true marriage.
When people state "Love Life", "Love Living Life"... If you don't love living life, you are usually dead..
Dancing in the rain? WHO in hell does this? Really? I want to know.
Looking for Knight on White Horse???
Looking for some sort of/any sort of fantasy. Women, it's NOT like you can bite into whatever your favorite chocolate bar is and POOF! Your fantasy comes true... So QUIT trying to emulate that through your profiles.
As mentioned before, a "few" extra pounds does NOT mean 100 EXTRA pounds... A few was always meant to be 3 or around that area... That was BEFORE the wordsmithing from Big Brother.
Also, the photo issue. If you do NOT post a photo, you should be locked-out from being ever present on these sites. Then, if you do not update your photo, say at least once a year, you should be booted from these sites.
I keep seeing the very same photos that I had seen back in 97, 98, 99... What gives?
Games... Yeah, we ALL play them. THAT is why we never hook-up with anybody. Too many games and not enough outright truth.
I remember the times I felt like I was going on blind dates regardless of the women's photos because for some reason they looked much thinner in the photos... Then in person they just blew-out an extra 50 to 80 pounds.
Get past the BS and we can move forward on these sites and start seeing more success stories.
It isn't really the issue of a woman having kids... THAT is pretty much expected when you get into your 30's. 40's and on up...
What MATTERS is when a guy, like myself, single and searching, sees LOADS of women that have "never been married" and have 1, 2, 3 or more children, OR we find women in our age group that has a young child from 1 month on up to 18 months old.. You really do have to questioon that woman's morals and scruples.
ALSO, and this is a very big issue... WHERE is the Father and is he in constant contact with his children, or is he being denied access for ANY reason other than by criminal conduct sanctioned by the courts...
Are BOTH parents EQUALLY supporting the child(ren) or are the women just randomly collecting child support checks?
THESE are the PRIMARY issues men face with women with children.
As far as the Fathers of these children, are they to a point where their focus is on the children or worrying about what the mother is doing with other men?
The statistics show that MOST child deaths are caused eithger by the Mother or the Boyfriend of the Mother... DOJ and DHHS. I have studied this trend for well over a decade and have founf these stats are actually much higher than reported...
Better get something worth while started now because after I accomplish various projects that are set to end soon, I'm outta Oklahoma and back out on the road.
DrWhoopie Forum Posts (7)
RE: Shacking up-----vs marriage
YES! THIS is all so very true... As men get older, when they look at a woman, they often wonder, "What guy is paying for that house?"... Is she going to do the same thing to me? Is she hung up on fairytales and fantasy going into the relationship?Men stand to lose BIG for even giving a woman their names these days. Look at California... ANY woman can get knocked-up and apply for public assistance and all the need to do is point to a man and say HE is the father and BAM! No DNA, no other paternity testing is ordered and the guy gets slammed with a child support award that stays with you through life...
TRY to fight it and you get slammed even harder... So the men are just supposed to shut up and pay.
Thank you N.O.W. and the sisterhood of wenches that stepped outside of the Bible's teaching and created a hell for the next 3 to 5 generations to come.
As I always state on issues like this... PROVE ME WRONG!