I met my who I thought would be my Soulmate...almost cost me my life. Yes...LIFE.
1. Refuses to admit guilt or wrong 2. Takes credit for everything 3. Uses people to accomplish agenda 4. Withholds information 5. Talks in confusion 6. Volunteers for anything 7. Lies (tells half truths) 8. Ignores people 9. Never gives credit or shows gratitude 10. Criticizes everyone 11. One-upmanship 12. Sequesters information 13. Uses information 14. Talks incessantly 15. Spiritualizes everything 16. Is insubordinate 17. Is pushy and domineering 18. Is clairvoyant 19. Uses the element of surprise just showing up 20. Sows seeds of discord 21. Commands attention 22. Is vengeful 23. Attempts to make you look like you're a "FOOL" 24. Insinuates disapproval 25. Knows it all 26. Is ambitious - to the point of being a "cut-throat" 27. Gift giving - always a motive or there are strings attached 28. Is independent because no one understands "ME" 29. Is religious (false) 30. Hides - Secluded
If you recognize any of these traits in your own life, begin by praying this prayer.
Father, I acknowlege that I have yielded myself to the spirit of Jezebel.I come to you, humbling myself before you. I desire your standard of righteousness and holiness. I ask you to forgive me for my tolerance of the Jezebel spirit and for being sympathetic to its ways. Please forgive me for every way I have opened myself up to this spirit. Help me to ruthlessly reject every type of this thinking and the desire to control and manipulate other people. I renounce and bind this demon of Jezebel, and I pull down this stronghold in my life. Through the Holy Spirit I will live by your standard of righteousness, holiness and conduct. Open my eyes and cause Your light to expose any darkness, and help me to walk in humility and truth. In Jesus Name, AMEN
If I were looking...That she's a welder wouldnt bother me. That she and I would be able to forge a relationship together and make it strong and take something rough and make it art would be the area of concern She sounds like a wonderful person and you an AWESOME friend. Nothing Wrong with a tool-belt DIVA. Wear it baby...It looks good on ya! J
RE: Red Flags
Yes, I agree. Thanks