It seems that 99% of the mail I get you know right off is from someone who isn't really here to meet someone...cause right away they are asking you to call them, or giving you their email address so you can write to them directly or chat with them...those are the ones they say to avoid .... I always block them right from the get go. The trouble is I have yet to find someone sincere here and that really is sad cause that's what I'm here for is to meet someone and hopefully fall in love again.
I have 4 pets.... 2 of them are house cats...the older being almost 4 is fluffy and gray with white his name is Shadow, the younger being almost 3 is what is called a dilute calico and her name is Rescue...she's a monster from you know where...LOL that's cause I spoiled her when she was a baby...got her in AZ when I went down there because my mom was dying, the people said she was 5 wks and it turned out she was only 3 wks old so bottle fed her for 3 wks... I also have 2 purebred Australian Shepherds...the older will be 7 yrs next month, his name is Storm and the younger one just turned 1 in Nov last year, her name is Shyanne. I love them to death....wish I lived out in the country and could have more plus horses too LOL...
Then again....maybe he was just as nervous as you were....men can be nervous about meeting someone too....I hope that if he calls you again you'll give him the chance to explain what happen. I'm having a hard time like you meeting men though on here...I seem to end up with all the scammers
Gosh everyone thanks for all the input...I'm glad to know I'm not the only one getting the scammers even on this site...and yes 99% of the time I do just delete their messages to me once I get the sob story from them and realize they are just another scammer....I'm glad that there does also seem to be good men on here...and yes guess I'll just keep watching for the one that I can hopefully know isn't a scammer...I know a friend at work that met her husband on a singles site...so, onward and upward LOL...
Just wondering as it seems I tend to get alot of guys that have the same woo is me story...they are widowed...either their wife died of cancer or in a car accident...and they are raising their kids on their own . Now I'm just wondering am I the only one that gets these? I have learned that when I get mail stating this info from any man I put up the BIG RED FLAG...and tell them sorry but no thanks.... Gosh I'm serious about trying to find myself a husband but alot of the men on these sites obviously are out just to scam...
Yup....like alot of the others...I've never been to an island Caribbean or otherwise LOL..... I thought I was going to get to go to Hawaii this summer but that fell thru Oh well maybe another year...when I meet that man I'm waiting for
RE: It's kinda sad..
It seems that 99% of the mail I get you know right off is from someone who isn't really here to meet someone...cause right away they are asking you to call them, or giving you their email address so you can write to them directly or chat with them...those are the ones they say to avoid .... I always block them right from the get go. The trouble is I have yet to find someone sincere here and that really is sad cause that's what I'm here for is to meet someone and hopefully fall in love again.