I seem to exel at posing questions that have no answer. Discomforting and berefet of the comfort of conclusionas they are. Still, some things have no answer. We simply cannot know for example if ones "idea" of self in nosence or not.
The feelings that we get from such ideas however are indeed quite factual. So is our relationship with those feelings or the ideas???
Yuck huh! & I got two hundred and eighty pages of this crap I wrote at sea. I never figuerd it out either, well...cant explain. I do know this however, when you meet somone and take them as they are for nomatter what, then then shields come down.
This is easy to do when both side recognise they both "talk in the head" often to try and fix thing, resay things, thus their relationship is with an images and senastions in their head not a person. When two people recognise this, then they can move beyond reacting to fear.
Hate is a reaction to fear, but when you truly love somone it is an open door to endless creativity. This because your not confined to a role you play for security. you dont have to say or do a thing to be loved.
Is honesty possible if one's ideas about oneself will always be nonsence? It seems that if one has an idea of self and based on that, forms an idea of how others should relate back. Seems boxed into an activity of relationship through images. Like living in a advertisment.....
7 up & saltines. I've taken a few scientist seasick & all out to sea and I stock it on board. Also fist and formost immodium AD. I've been sick in tahiti samoa fiji immodium is the best.
More important, teach him how to vomit, take three or four breaths then a half a breath. It's like free diving. This because the worst part is gasping for breath and pulling stuff back.
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RE: The Older I Get, The More I Learn It's Never To Old To Change
What the secret? Quiting a bahavior habbit is like quitting smoking. Even when misery becomes a habit.To be or not to be:-)