I find that rather disturbing that you bring your kids along on initial dates...
Personally I would not introduce any new man in my life to my sons until I was comfortable with him and knew him somewhat better. Which is just as well as I have had my fair share of very maladjusted men this year.
I've now given up looking and will devote my time to taking the labels off beer bottles and putting them in little plastic pockets...
I think that's a rather unfair thing to say about us girls! I have met a lot of men off a few different sites but sadly they mostly seem to be looking for a short, wild adventure ('Fun' is the operative term.. ) rather than anything more permanent which requires any kind of commitment.
They seem to have this baffling idea that they want to keep dating me while they keep dating others 'just in case' and that that is OK... Not that the same rule applies to me, naturellement!
It's not only the women in this country who a seem to have a problem here....
What a shame you live so far away...
Anyway - I'll take my disillusionment away to the sofa now..
Nothing to scared of. remember to go out there with the thought in mind that nothing is gonna happen that you don't want to happen. Just be yourself - and be honest, whatever you do!
RE: Expectations on first and following dates, who asks, who pays, who decides where?
I find that rather disturbing that you bring your kids along on initial dates...Personally I would not introduce any new man in my life to my sons until I was comfortable with him and knew him somewhat better. Which is just as well as I have had my fair share of very maladjusted men this year.
I've now given up looking and will devote my time to taking the labels off beer bottles and putting them in little plastic pockets...
MM