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I went through my divorce after my seperation 4 years ago. Go to the courthouse or library or call the courthouse and ask. Every state has different rules. If i wouldn't have gotten my seperation papers which he didn't have to sign, when i did i would've got stuck paying about 3 grand in bills that he ran up. Plus i put in my seperation papers that i had sole custody of our son and he had visitation rights but no over night stays. If i wouldn't have he could have taken him and ran. I talked to a police officer and he said if it's not in seperation papers then there would've been nothing to stop him. 
Also try the internet and see what you can find out. What state are you in? I can do some checking for you. I am studying to be a paralegal so i do know some of the laws. When i got my seperation i did it completely on my own. It cost me about $110 i think. But I lucked out my ex-husband never fought me on anything. If you have any questions let me know, i might be able to help you. 
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RE: LEGAL SEPARATIONS....
That is usually how it works. I lucked out when i set up my seperation agreement me and my ex-husband was on really good terms and he agreed to everything. Then i told him about 2 months later after i found out he was cheating on me that it was over and there was no way i was getting back with him then he went to West Virginia for a week but he asked me before he left for west virginia if i would let him take my son with him but he had never been with him for more than hour by his self and there was no way i was going to let him to him down there. Which i thank god that i didn't let him go cuz i would have never seen him again.