I never said the man would have to relocate, all I am saying is that I expect he come to me for the initial meeting. I am referring to meeting people online (i.e. someone I have never met before.)
I definitely think it's the man's job to travel. If he's interested enough he needs to come and see me and then we will take it from there. Otherwise, long distance is a waste of time.
RE: Montreal anyone ?
Montreal is a great city, I should know I live here :P you'll love it!