Hey Vinny,

You want the truth? Women won't contact you. You have to contact them. That's the way it works for blokes like us.

Having said this, I had to re-evaluate what sort of women I was interested in, I found that I was limiting myself somewhat.

Also where are you prepared to go for a woman?

Mate, I found my fiance by using the "who's Viewed Me" tool on this site. Contact the women who view you (but they don't contact you) and see where that goes. It worked for me. At the very least if women view you, then you are doing okay.

Define attractive - do you want to look like a movie star or do you want a girlfriend / partner?

Evaluate this and stop looking at your externals. Concentrate on your internals and this will change what women see on the outside.

Good luck.

Hi Vinny, you have a good variety of photos and a well written profile text. I suggest you take out or change the sentence that looks is hightly overrated.

Best of luck.

Vinny, I'm sorry but I see absolutely nothing wrong with you or your profile. I think you are handsome and have a lot going for you. Thats just my opinion

have you ever think for a second that the only thing that is wrong from all this, is actually the part where you think that there is something wrong with yourself ?

I also think that you are very intesting and handsome man. What a shame for me that yo are looking a woman a bit younger than I am :( But good look. There is nothing wrong with you for sure :)

Hi, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Here and there, you seem desperate. Change your wordings and show how cool you are, take each day as it goes, you will get lucky. Don't lose hope.

Will you please stop putting yourself down...

You just haven't met the right girl yet...A lot of people are in the same boat....

Its not all about looks getting chatting to girls on here and eventually you will find the one....

You have a lot to offer a girl and anyone who cant see that doesn't deserve you....

Write to me if you need someone to talk to...

Denise

I am here because you need a hug today