I think there are a ton of profiles here and that makes it very difficult to get noticed unless you are very pro-active about contacting people yourself. In other words, if you simply put up a profile, sit back and wait for people to write you tons of mail it probably isnt going to happen. You'll be lucky to be checked out at all. You actually have to spend a fair amount of time on line trying to contact others for yourself. Thats my take on it anyway. Good luck to you Jasmine.

are pictures of children allowed? btw, your kids are cute. good luck!