Profile review please
Hello ! Please tell me what's wrong with my profile (few visits, messages from men who don't match my criteria though I'm clear about it...)Thanks for answering :)
EmelineTheCat Review Details
Thanks for answering :)
Aug 10, 2013 3:34 PM CST
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About me and who I'm looking for
About me: Hi ! :) I'm a 22-year-old young woman looking for a serious relationship.I'm currently on my last year of Master's in a business school (ESCP Europe). I'll study in London from September 2014 to February 2015 and then I'll be in Berlin until the end of June.
I like to travel, cook, learn new languages. I take relationships seriously and feel ready for something durable.
I'm EXCLUSIVELY attracted to WHITE MEN. If you're not one, don't waste your time sending me a message or a friend request, sorry.
My parents are from the French West Indies but I was born and raised in Paris, France.
I speak French, French Creole, English and Spanish. I've begun learning German this year.
I'm looking for: Someone curious, smart, caring, faithful, respectful and ready for a serious relationship.
Physically speaking I like tall men with a nice smile and beautiful hands. Not too muscled, not too fat.
Aged 24 to 32.
Ideally from Western or Northern Europe.
EmelineTheCat
Only looking for long-term
- I am a:
- 32 yr-old woman
- Seeking:
- seeking man, 25-35
- Location:
- London, Greater London, England, UK, Western Europe
- Last Online:
- Online over 1 month
- Height:
- 5' 5" (165 cm)
- Body Type:
- Curvy
- Hair Color:
- Dark Brown
- Eye Color:
- Brown
- Ethnicity:
- Mixed Race
- Education:
- Masters Degree
- Religion:
- Christian/Catholic
- Occupation:
- StudentI'm currently studying Management
- Income:
- ---
- Smokes:
- Never
- Drinks:
- Socially
- Marital Status:
- Never Married
- Has Kids:
- No
- Wants Kids:
- Definitely
- Looking for:
- Long-term Dating
- Sign:
- Aquarius
My Match Details
- Seeking:
- seeking man, 25-35
- Located:
- Anywhere
- Height:
- Any
- Body Type:
- Skinny, Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Toned & Firm, Average, Proportional, Few extra pounds
- Hair:
- Auburn, Red, Strawberry Blonde, Platinum Blonde, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Light Brown, Medium Brown, Dark Brown, Black, Salt & Pepper
- Eyes:
- Blue, Brown, Green, Gray, Hazel
- Ethnicity:
- White/Caucasian
- Education:
- Masters Degree, PhD/Post Doctoral
- Religion:
- Atheist, Agnostic, Christian/Catholic, Christian/Protestant, Christian/LDS, Christian/Other, Non-religious, Spiritual but not religious
- Occupation:
- Any
- Income:
- $25,000 to $50,000, $50,000 to $75,000, $75,000 to $100,000, $100,000 to $150,000, $150,000+
- Smokes:
- Any
- Drinks:
- Any
- Marital Status:
- Never Married
- Has kids:
- No
- Wants kids:
- Definitely | Someday
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Profile Reviews & Comments for EmelineTheCat
theres no way of knowing what your match criteria is without viewing your profile ......
there are so many idiots who dont know where people live befor they send letters , ....
I get dumb people saying they want a serious relationship , but they live on the other side of this earth
there are so many idiots who dont know where people live befor they send letters , ....
I get dumb people saying they want a serious relationship , but they live on the other side of this earth
Aug 10, 2013 4:33 PM CST
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presley12
Beijing, China
Sweetie, you are a very attractive young lady but you are not caucasian. Secondly, when you post your education level, people don't look to see what your aspirations are, they look to see where you are with your education. I can't speak for anyone else but I personally could care less what you are working towards. It has no bearing on who you are as a person if you haven't finished it yet. What matters is that you let people know the truth about what you are doing with your life and who you are as a person. I wish you the best in your search,
Aug 11, 2013 4:34 AM CST
Dont worry, 95 % messages from men dont match my criteria. Anyway nobody reading our profiles ....
Aug 11, 2013 7:33 AM CST
lauryna: Dont worry, 95 % messages from men dont match my criteria. Anyway nobody reading our profiles ....
I totally agree with you, most of them don't take time to read our profile and what we're looking for, they only look at our pictures. It's really annoying...
Aug 11, 2013 9:18 AM CST
Absolutely! Black or white, they contact you just if they are attracted by the photo, no matter what are your criteria and wishes.
Aug 16, 2013 4:16 AM CST
Hi EmelineThe cat
I think it is a common problem,of getting few visits and messages,about 90 percent profile get few visits on C.S.
YOUR profile is nice.don't worry, it is wrong that messages are
send on pics without reading profile.
'SOMETIMES LONLINESS IS BETTER THAN FAKE FRIEND;
Aug 16, 2013 5:05 AM CST
adgloriam: Absolutely! Black or white, they contact you just if they are attracted by the photo, no matter what are your criteria and wishes.
I don't forbid anyone to send me messages. I just clearly say what my type of man is.
And I'm here to find love so I don't see what's wrong with exposing my main criterion. I could write "Black men only" as I'm black or "French guys only" as I'm French. But sorry, I'm looking for something DIFFERENT : white men all over Europe (preferably out of France).
I'm black, many non-white men tend to contact me whereas they are not my type at all. It's just creaming off.
If a man writes "Tall and skinny blondes only" I will not contact him (as I'm quite short, curvy and brunette). I will not make him waste his time and would accept that though I like his profile, I don't match his (physical) criteria. It's frustrating but I'll just move on.
To me, what's outside counts as much as what's inside. And there are some sine qua non criteria for me. Being white is one of them.
I won't change this in my profile, but thank you for your comment though :)
Aug 18, 2013 8:38 AM CST
EmelineTheCat: I don't forbid anyone to send me messages. I just clearly say what my type of man is.
And I'm here to find love so I don't see what's wrong with exposing my main criterion. I could write "Black men only" as I'm black or "French guys only" as I'm French. But sorry, I'm looking for something DIFFERENT : white men all over Europe (preferably out of France).
I'm black, many non-white men tend to contact me whereas they are not my type at all. It's just creaming off.
If a man writes "Tall and skinny blondes only" I will not contact him (as I'm quite short, curvy and brunette). I will not make him waste his time and would accept that though I like his profile, I don't match his (physical) criteria. It's frustrating but I'll just move on.
To me, what's outside counts as much as what's inside. And there are some sine qua non criteria for me. Being white is one of them.
I won't change this in my profile, but thank you for your comment though :)
I never meant that you need to change this or that it's wrong having and setting some definite criteria. On the contrary it's very well if you know what you want. The problem is that guys don't generally care about your (and not only your) expectations and "sine qua non" criteria, and sometimes, I agree, it's really frustrating. Best of luck, though! :-)And I'm here to find love so I don't see what's wrong with exposing my main criterion. I could write "Black men only" as I'm black or "French guys only" as I'm French. But sorry, I'm looking for something DIFFERENT : white men all over Europe (preferably out of France).
I'm black, many non-white men tend to contact me whereas they are not my type at all. It's just creaming off.
If a man writes "Tall and skinny blondes only" I will not contact him (as I'm quite short, curvy and brunette). I will not make him waste his time and would accept that though I like his profile, I don't match his (physical) criteria. It's frustrating but I'll just move on.
To me, what's outside counts as much as what's inside. And there are some sine qua non criteria for me. Being white is one of them.
I won't change this in my profile, but thank you for your comment though :)
Aug 18, 2013 1:37 PM CST
A lot of men don't bother reading your profile, so I wouldn't worry about them. And I agree that specifying what it is that YOU want is important, and certainly more important than catering to the men that don't meet your criteria anyway!!!
I get messages from men nowhere NEAR me, and I just don't get it, since I specify the area that I will only respond to.
I feel that the men that don't bother to read the entire profile are either lazy, or that they're just looking for a hook up, but not man enough to say so.
I get messages from men nowhere NEAR me, and I just don't get it, since I specify the area that I will only respond to.
I feel that the men that don't bother to read the entire profile are either lazy, or that they're just looking for a hook up, but not man enough to say so.
Aug 20, 2013 9:41 PM CST
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