Asking that question makes you sound uncertain, and 50 is not old...unless you FEEL old.
At our age, I think it's odd to not want a serious relationship, but that's my opinion. Just be yourself, and the right woman will happen when the time is right.
In your narrative, you mention men contacting you from far away, but there's no clarity on what area is acceptable. And in the "My Ideal Match" section, you answered distance from you: ANY, So this might be part of the unwanted plethora of attention.
I thought your profile was very well done in general. I would leave out the emoticons, as they're distracting. Also, I'd omit the sections above the actual descriptor of who you are. It's not necessary, and sounds a bit like you're educating lesser mortals! I may be the wrong person to post suggestions, as the only men that have contacted me are either far away or they're illiterate (asking me questions answered in my profile!)
A lot of men don't bother reading your profile, so I wouldn't worry about them. And I agree that specifying what it is that YOU want is important, and certainly more important than catering to the men that don't meet your criteria anyway!!!
I get messages from men nowhere NEAR me, and I just don't get it, since I specify the area that I will only respond to.
I feel that the men that don't bother to read the entire profile are either lazy, or that they're just looking for a hook up, but not man enough to say so.
First, you're a gorgeous woman and your profile comes across as genuine. Except...
In your own words you say that you're a Christian, in search of a God fearing man, but to the right, under religion it says Agnostic. Also, there are a few Lol's in your narrative, which (to me) indicates nervous laughter. I would take those out, because your profile really is a nice one and I think the Lol's take away from that.
Thank you! I'll post some full body shots, once I have them.
I just keep getting friend requests from men in other countries, and want to curb that...especially since many folks don't seem to read the entire thing!
You're very welcome! Can I ask you to look at mine and critique it? Two women have responded, but I can only find one of the responses, and I definitely appreciate her suggestions.
As a very direct person, I love your profile and wouldn't change a thing. Remember, the right woman for YOU will appreciate the qualities you have.
I wish that more folks on dating sites would be honest and direct. It may take longer to find the right person, but I think it's worth waiting for the one that fits you best.
I won't wish you luck, because I don't think you need it.
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RE: Fake photo?
Good pictures, and a nice profile too! Nothing wrong with putting your best foot (or face) forward!