thanks for your answer......and I see you have a restriction on the area you are looking.....which might not be wise either.
Think about it, ladies to suddenly relocate. Some may have gone to France and Spain, maybe further and are considering moving back to the UK because of recent changes. They should be allowed to contact you, not those who haven't ventured away from the UK, as they may not want to because of family etc...
I believe you need the more confident and adventurous who travel and isn't worried about change of lifestyle in middle age......
Niah

Thanks again niah,do you have an agony aunt page in the press ? x