About me and who I'm looking for

About me: I know how to make a woman feel like a princess, and I enjoy doing that. One of my favorite things in life is that smile a woman gives when her eyes light up and her nose twitches a little... you know the one. ;-)

I am overly communicative, sentimental and nostalgic. I write long, sappy letters, emails and text messages. I am a romantic at heart and I love to adore a woman.

I am a true southern gentleman. I open doors for ladies and call them ma'am no matter how old or young they are, and that has gotten me some very strange looks.

I like camping, hiking, geocaching, the beach, bonfires, just about anything outdoors. I like going out, but I also like piling up on the couch and watching TV or a movie with her head on my shoulder, just being together. I like BBQing with friends and family, watching the little kids run around and get wild. I love children very much.

I like hanging out and having real conversations, hearing all the little stories that make up people's daily lives.

I am honest and open, and value those traits highly.

My sense of humor is kind of goofy, but with a sarcastic edge.

I have three boys, 17, 16 and 12, and they are the center of my world. They live with mom, but I get to see them several times per week. They are respectful and polite and well mannered and they are my greatest accomplishment.

That's me in a nutshell.

I'm looking for: She must be honest. Lies are lies, and unnecessary in a strong relationship. Hiding anything is suspicious and creates mistrust. Sneaking is an indication of wrongdoing.

She must be loyal. If you think there is someone better, you are not with the right person. Move on, don't hold on.

She must be open about her feelings, and willing to share them with me. Communication is key. Guys are stupid. If you do not tell us what you are feeling, chances are we will read it wrong, and we both will suffer the consequences.

She must be genuine. Fake is not attractive. Don't try to create a cute little laugh, just laugh, even if you snort or wheeze. Don't try to hold back a sneeze, just let it go. If you have to burp, go ahead and get it over with, say "excuse me" and move on. REAL is attractive.

She must be demonstrably caring and loving. Actions speak louder than words. Love is a collection of actions more than a collection of feelings.