Hi Jents,

Well, what to say???

I think that it is amazing you can be retired. But you want your future partner to not be retired? Interesting.

It is nice that you can clearly spell out what you want. So what does a future partner get out of the deal? What would you offer to compliment what you want? What would be the attractions for him?

When seeking a partner, it is after all a partnership. And this means that you have to put into the partnership some things as well, yet your profile doesn't mention anything about what you are prepared to put in, just what you want out....

Of course, I'm speaking from a man's perspective that maybe you can't see.

I'm sure that there are many things that you would give in a relationship. The issue here is that you haven't presented a balance profile explaining this.

Having read your profile, I wouldn't go any further as my initial perception is one of wanting a lot without wanting to put in much in return.

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but I'm being honest as a bloke.

We all want something or many things out of the deal, so I think it is important to balance up your profile a bit in this regard.

Maybe a couple more photos outside in a park setting or a social setting would also be great.

Hope you do well.

Cheers,