About real love

I think that:
If we believe in love, we should accept love is profoundly tender, passionate affection for the person, we are looking for.
We should love to spend quality time together other than sex. In this case we would get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing. Each one of us will feel happy to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
Either of us will motivate the other to be a better person. True love means, at least, having great feelings towards the person we are interested in without sex involved. And we say to each other how much love and good understanding, we need. Then we will never cease to love each other, I believe. Love makes us feel safe and secure, loved and wanted!!!