i see nothing wrong but to find a soulmate can take years your a very attractive woman and i wish you the best of luck in your search for the man of your dreams

i know it may take years but i want to show guys that im that kind of person. thanks x

well this site can be a good way of expressing yourself :) try the ie forums can be good place to meet people i go there myself

yeah but im a person with no confidence wats so ever. i lik d forums gud way 2 meet new ppl

i am kind of in the same boat ive no confidence myself at times but i try to look at the postives everyone has the chance to meet someone great and try not to let it get to you im sure the lucky man will treat you well when u find him

oh i hope so :)

There's nothing wrong with looking for a soul mate, the problem is telling people that your looking for one. Your 19, so really you should be playing the field and what comes, comes and what doesn't doesn't. The sick of timewasters, heading you have is a deterrent to any potential guy, especially the good ones. Nobody wants to take someone out who expects too much too soon, it's unrealistic. I think change your perspective on dating a bit, not every guy that takes you out is neccesarily going to want to be with you, and those that leave after a few dates are not "wasting your time" they simply got to know you and decided you're not right for them.