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ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts, USA

Am I sending the wrong signals?

some members view my profile, especially after i leave them a flower or Email, but 1 out of 5 views actually reply back. I rarely received flowers or friend invites, I wrote great poems and I even created a Group for other members having a hard luck like me. Please tell me what's in my profile that's wrong, and what I can do to increase me getting noticed by more woman members. Thank you

I think this can help other members like me that's having simalar problems.
Dec 9, 2010 7:01 PM CST
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2015 Now living in Boston where it gets very cold snow and blizzards are normal in the winter I miss Geaorgia lol2015 Now living in Boston where it gets very cold, snow and blizzards are normal in the winter, I miss Geaorgia lol
  • 2015 Now living in Boston where it gets very cold snow and blizzards are normal in the winter I miss Geaorgia lol
  • these are my girls 8 year old Marion and 6 year old Nanase on Halloween 2010 taking a picture with some random lady in witch
  • My crazy brother Jay always on the phone
  • me editing my rap lyrics on my recent song concept
  • this is one of my pit bull puppies my dog had 10 but 1 had died
  • me back in 2009 10
  • my 5 year old son who died in a house fire on 2 14 08 RIP Zabian daddy misses you and love you always
  • Dec 2014 photo just a lowly busness man by day
About me and who I'm looking for
About me: I'm a 38 (born 12-23-1975) black male who would give 100% of me to a woman that longs to be loved and satisfied in every way. You won't get no drama, BS, or games from me, I'm just a hopeless romantic who will always strive to surpass a woman's expectations. To know a little bit more about how i feel about love then please check out my blogs and poetry too if you like.

I'm looking for: ANY woman deserves to be happy and pleased by a good - decent man. I also respect a woman who's looking for a real relationship, a woman who's been searching and waiting for the right guy, I'm looking for my perfect match too. We all had our share of relationships that didn't work out but like you, I want to make friends, and maybe find My soul mate too, no matter how far away she may live.

ssbbwlover

Thank's for viewing my profile, but why not know me for yourslelf....
I am a:
48 yr-old man
Seeking:
seeking woman, 22-50
Location:
Chelsea, Massachusetts, USA
Last Online:
Online over 1 month
Height:
6' 0"  (183 cm)
Body Type:
Average
Hair Color:
Black
Eye Color:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Black/African
my father is black, from Yonkers, New york. However, my mother is from Brazil.
Education:
High School
I join the US NAVY out of high school, I got out in 1998
Religion:
Christian/Other
Occupation:
Computer Programming
I'm a college student and I work in my fathers business
Income:
Less than $25,000
Smokes:
Never
Drinks:
Occasionally
Marital Status:
Divorced
Has Kids:
Yes, they don't live with me
Wants Kids:
Someday
Looking for:
Dating
Sign:
Capricorn Capricorn
My Match Details
Seeking:
seeking woman, 22-50
Located:
Anywhere
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Proportional, Curvy, Few extra pounds, Full Figured, Voluptuous, Big and Beautiful, Large
Hair:
Any
Eyes:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Education:
Any
Religion:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Smokes:
Any
Drinks:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Has kids:
Any
Wants kids:
Any
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Profile Reviews & Comments for ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
your comments were very helpful, I rewrote my profile the way you suggested and now I feel better about it. thanks again.handshake
Dec 10, 2010 9:40 AM CST
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
I just wish I could change my username, do you know how?
Dec 10, 2010 9:42 AM CST
ceccarelli
ceccarelli
clovis, California USA
2 comments
seeking age 18- 55 is a little strange. profile picture isnot appealing. need to smile..
Dec 10, 2010 11:37 AM CST
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrys
St. Joseph, Missouri USA
29 comments
To me, I see that you Provide your Name TWICE, and it just dings a signal, and i agree, the Pic Would do better with a Smiling Happy time, and not a get off work Photo...
So Yes More Photos would be Good... Tho what I do read seems that of a sincere Person Just looking For Love,
A Lifetime mate takes Much Time and Dedication, and also with that comes Many Let downs, Bust Wishes in Fining That Special one. handshake
Dec 10, 2010 11:51 AM CST
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrys
St. Joseph, Missouri USA
29 comments
PS To change your user name, You may have to close out this account and start a new one, thats the only way I know...confused
Dec 10, 2010 11:54 AM CST
wikked
wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada
You would like people to read your profile in its entirety...do you give them the same consideration and read theirs?

Some may just be here for the forums...wine
Dec 10, 2010 1:34 PM CST
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
Thanks you guys I'm honestly new at this, but I'm taking all of your advice and I'll keep making changes till I get it right.
Dec 10, 2010 5:38 PM CST
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
you are right, I changed it. Thankshandshake
Dec 10, 2010 7:50 PM CST
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
I think I just about got it guys, thanks a lot everybody, Byewave
Dec 10, 2010 7:53 PM CST
ssbbwlover
ssbbwlover
Chelsea, Massachusetts USA
6 comments
Ok, I think I about fixed everything.... hmm
Dec 10, 2010 7:55 PM CST
daisy333
daisy333
Sydney, New South Wales Australia
Hi there

I really liked your profile and there are a couple of things you might think about to make it easier for women to respond.

1. You've said that you're basically seeking Ms Right, but in the contact section, you've said that you are seeking chat/pen-pal. Some women may have marked in their own profile that guys only seeking chat/pen-pal status cannot contact them. There are probably quite a few women here who only want to be contacted by people who are seeking a relationship. If you are looking for a relationship, say so.

2. I love the photo, but how about one soon with a smile? wave
Dec 11, 2010 1:07 AM CST
niah9
niah9
Auckland, New Zealand
449 comments
Well...no shortage of comments...and I agree, your profile does not work...it send mixed messages...like email/pen pal.... but you call yourself letters ending with ....lover which is a major turn off with all the conmen we recieve flowers from....
Keep it simple, if you want a friend to write, then drop all the what you want and expects....this is a friendship thing not instant lovers...and it takes time to reach a position of trust anyway...oh and you really should smile, that looking down pose...positively scary....most women wouldn't respond....be friendly..look like the man ladies would like to call...friend.
Niah
Dec 11, 2010 5:09 PM CST

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