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Martina84
Copenhagen, Capital Region, Denmark

My look...

Do i look imature and like a party girl on my photos??? Cause a guy I wrote, pete4444 just called me immature and for a party girl. He didnt want someone like me. How can a guy judge me by my pics and through what I write???? That sucks big time!!! I hardly never go out cause I don't have tons of friends to do it with, my job as a doctor takes a lot time, and I don't drink or smoke!!! Thanks for the judgement maaaan!

Dec 30, 2012 2:24 PM CST

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About me and who I'm looking for

About me: Way to many muslims contact me. i wonder why, is it my passport? Im NOT Into muslim guys at all. Im talking by experience yes. We dont share same values in life, religion, the Way u see women etc. So dont waste ur time on me please.

Let me be honest with you: I know what I want. I'm stubborn. I'm talkative, I take things too personal sometimes, I finish the lines you were about to say, I'm childish in the good way(!) and I'm the one you might meet in the nightclub (2 times a year perhaps), who is doing my silly-dancing with the victim that I found. Yeah... That's pretty much me... BUT: I'm also the girl when the things doesn't go right between me and my partner who lives in another country, we don't talk to each other for a while, and the partner is thinking "she is not coming to see me after this". Then I'm the girl who buys a ticket, jumping on a plane to his country on my own birthday, buying a SIM card, get some credit on it, going to his front door, calling him and say "can you please open the door?". (Real story). Oh, so I forgot another word on the list: silly. I do silly things too.

I'm looking for: My perfect match? must be the guy who doesnt leave me for small things. him who knows that the love is bigger than small issues. He is the one who can't live without me and I can't live without him - that's the right guy for me. I need someone who is opposite. I lovewhen a guy can makes me Laugh. Having humour means alot to me. Ps. I'm trying to avoid the starsign Gemini. We aren't really a good match!
And please... I recieve SO many friend requests, mails and comments from guys who is from Pakistan, morocco, whole Middle East etc. so please don't write me. I'm not interested. I'm sure you are sweet, but I don't know if its me or the passport here you are interested in to get.

The ideal match is the guy that doesnt eat dead animals, as im vegetarian myself. Yes, i get all the vitamins i need. No, fish and chicken is Meat aswell. Ofcourse i dont eat fish and chicken to.

Martina84

Seeking for the one and only guy!

I am a:: 39 yr-old woman
Seeking:: seeking man, 25-32
Location:: Copenhagen, Capital Region, Denmark, Western Europe
Last Online:: Online over 1 month
Height:: 5' 5" (165 cm)
Body Type:: Slim/Slender
Hair Color:: Medium Brown
Eye Color:: Green
Ethnicity:: White/Caucasian
Education:: Bachelors Degree
Religion:: Christian/Catholic
Occupation:: Student
Student
Income:: ---
Smokes:: Never
Drinks:: Rarely
Marital Status:: Never Married
Has Kids:: No
Wants Kids:: Definitely
Looking for:: Marriage
Sign:: Virgo

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Martina84
Copenhagen, Capital Region Denmark
31 comments

And NOT through what I write*

Dec 30, 2012 2:25 PM CST

dublinguy30
Dublin, Ireland
4 comments

Hi Martina,

your photos look fine, but your main photo of a fellow kissing you mightnt lead to right conclusions ;)

Niall

Dec 30, 2012 3:03 PM CST

luckyde
montreal, Quebec Canada

Martina, your profile is correct, stay like you are. Let the opinions of others aside. Let`s go, stay cool.

André

Dec 30, 2012 4:34 PM CST

MADDOG69
Dublin, Ireland
114 comments

Matina:

MADDOG69: https://dl.dropbox.com/u/600721/BowerGavin_James2009.jpg

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gavin_James_Bower

Hi! Thought you lived in London?

http://www.connectingsingles.com/forum_0_198279_1/usa_where_liberalism_failed.htm

Pete has fake pics up anyway. I already saw him.

Dec 30, 2012 4:38 PM CST

NaySumYay
Brisane, Queensland Australia
15 comments

Don't worry about what the Pete

man said so much.

If Pete could not say anything nice, than Pete should not of said anything at all.

Who is the guy kissing you in the photo? Is he your lover? If not, just mention this in the photo description. That photo is the only thing that Pete judged you on I suspect. When men look for single women they sometimes get uncomfortable and or jealous

of other men doing to you what they want to do to you.

moping

It's a nice photo of you, you could remove the guy kissing you 'from the photo' in Photoshop online. It's free to use, and you just paint over him haha.

I hope what I say, makes some sense and helps out.

Dec 30, 2012 4:59 PM CST

MrMan84
Swansea, West Glamorgan, Wales UK
12 comments

I agree with the Aussie fellow. Personally, I thnk your profile is cool and if someone is sarcastic about what you've got up, it's their loss. Granted some guy is kissing you on the cheek, but your body language shows you're not overly fussed by it and it's only a kiss on the cheek!! People kiss on the cheek all the time. I think he's talking out of his a*se.

Dec 30, 2012 5:10 PM CST

Martina84
Copenhagen, Capital Region Denmark
31 comments

Hehe, thanks for your comments guys. And Maddog thank you so much for showing me this!! So, it means that he isn't real? The guy on the photo?? I mean, he lives in the United States, I see that, but the guy Gavin is from London - well he COULD have been moving to the United States? Normally I'm very skeptical...

Dec 30, 2012 5:51 PM CST

dublinguy30
Dublin, Ireland
4 comments

Aye, dont worry about what Pete has said, there are fools out there and fools are fools, the best thing to do is to just forget about what Pete has said your photos are fine and there are good genuine people out there :)

Dec 30, 2012 8:16 PM CST

sheba812
savannah, Georgia USA

Im so sorry that guy said that. Your a beautiful girl and keep your head up. I just recently got off of pof. There were some crazy guys on there calling me all kinds of names and didn't even know me as a person. Your not alone and don't let no man break you down.

p.s. just a girl who saw your post and totally understood.

Dec 30, 2012 8:21 PM CST

gianaliz
zurich, Zurich Switzerland

Hi Martina !
I think that the man from Dublin wrote something that is true .No man wants to see a pic of a girl kissing from another man .You don't have to change anything from your personality, just change this pic.And something else : don't have many expectation here - I hope you understand me ...
Good luck !!!

Jan 7, 2013 1:22 AM CST

shanishan007
h, Mediterranean Turkey

hi contact me on archsalman20@yahoo.com

Jan 10, 2013 10:31 AM CST

aquarian1
Delhi, India
5 comments

I Liked your profile...respect the profession you are in ..because i have friends from the same profession and i know how absolutely difficult andtime consuming that environment gets.
However...I guess..you have now experienced ..first hand the downside of someone being stereotyped despite great looks and irrespective of the reality.
My profile probably faces this bias/prejudice regularly which is why even when i think i am unable to write to them.

I liked your profile...and yes if 'allowed' I would certainly write to you. Although not really a party person myself..i certainly would not interfere or worse lable you for your sociable nature and going out ! LOL ! No way .

I guess that sez it all ?

Feb 21, 2013 11:30 PM CST

SoBlue
Dartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada
10 comments

I see nothing wrong with ur profile Martina84...mr negative was most likely jealous that it wasn't him giving you the kiss on the cheek ~ so (maybe) this is where the unjustified comment came from ..its not worth using your energy to allow his groundless statement to occupy space in your head rent free.!

Feb 22, 2013 9:48 PM CST

Silverlining2
Lanaken, Limburg Belgium
52 comments

Hi Martina. The point of a profile is to allow people to start to form an opinion of you. If people get the wrong impression then its down to two possibilities. Either they mis-read or misunderstood your profile, in which case its their loss. Or, you have created a profile which gives the wrong impression, in which case you need to alter it to give the correct impression.

People form opinions based on first impressions. Your profile is the first impression anyone gets of you, so its 100% natural that people form opinions of you based on that. Remember, nobody on here knows you, we don't have the benefit of being able to get to know you over time. So what you think is obvious (because you have known yourself all your life) is not obvious to other people.

My opinion? Well, more from this thread than your profile, but naming and shaming a guy for having a negative opinion of you is rather unnecessary, and rather immature, which is also the way you come accross to me in your profile. Having said that, I bet you would be great fun to get to know, but I think your profile is advertising to a niche market! I do appreciate the honesty in what you write, but I'd suggest less personal stories and more self description.

I don't mean to be critical, just trying to make a helpful post. Good luck :-)

Mar 1, 2013 6:46 AM CST

leon_of_africa
oganda, Myanmar

you sais that his guy shouldn't judge you from you pics but you do the same thing in your profile when you judge people from middle east and morroco .... this is so interresing. you sais I am a doctor, are you sure?.

Mar 2, 2013 5:54 AM CST

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