Just over 2 years ago I lost my wife of 42 years to cancer, no one should have to suffer as she did in those last few months. I am trying to get over her loss, so as a cancerian person its important to come out of my shell and get on with my life. Living here in Spain has been a wonderful experience, having built our own home in the middle of a olive grove out in a quiet part of Catalunya. I am a caring person, who has had to adapt to living on my own, from house cleaning, cooking and ironing, all things I once took for granted now have to be done by me. I used to be outward going and well read, intelligent but struggling with the Spanish language. My hobbies include motorbikes, target pistol and rifle shooting (including old fashioned muzzle loading weapons) woodwork and woodturning, when there is electricity in my solar system, general DIY etc etc. Have a Alsatian Cross with a Husky, she thinks she is human, sulks a lot.
Some one who has suffered the same as me, so she understands the pain of carrying on with life. Warm/kind hearted and most important a sincere person. There seem to be a lot of people over here who "live in a fantasy world" about their past life in the UK.
Distance doesn't matter for the right person. I've always brought in the logs for the fire, what I'm looking for is someone to hold the other end of the log when I cut them into firewood with my chainsaw. She must be out there somewhere.
Trained as a Civil Engineer
Retired construction manager, man of leisure.