dan0926: Looking for a soulmate for sharing love and laughter in our lives, not just a partner
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- I am: 49 yr-old man seeking woman, 28-45
- Located in: Lüdenscheid, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany, Western Europe
- Last online: Online within 4 weeks
- Height: 6' 3" (190 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Dark Blonde
- Eye Color: Blue
- Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
- Education: Some College
- Religion: Christian/Protestant
- Occupation: Administrative/Secretarial
- Income: $25,000 to $50,000
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Never
- Marital Status: Never Married
- Has kids: No
- Wants kids: Definitely
- Sign:
Pisces
More About Me
Hm...where should I start? I believe there is a soulmate for every human somewhere in the world, we only need to find where.
I don't play games of any kind with people, just am honest and when I fall in love I do it with all my heart, try to make her as happy as a man can do. Personality is much more important than the look of body.
I think in a partnership both do their share, not 50/50 shares in all fields as one is better or stronger in one while in another it is the opposite. In total it is a balanced mix according to the skills and limits of both.
I also know that problems and conflicts will occur but if both have the will there is a way to solve them and the relationship will become better after. It is like a sunny day after a storm. To really appreciate the good days we need to know bad ones, too.
What more can I tell to describe how I am? I wanted to be sure to not exaggerate or give false expectations, so I asked friends.
This is what they told:
- "honest and direct but never in a bad way"
- "polite and friendly"
- "can make people smile, giving a good time"
- "thoughtful and self-reflected"
- "good listener, taking time to really understand and if you're too busy you tell it and call back another day"
- "never blaming people if they ask for advice or help, just focusing on the problem, trying to help"
- "very reliable, if you give your word you stay with it"
I'm not sure if any of this is something special as I do it because it feels right to do. But these are only words, so no matter if you believe me or not, feel free to write and get your own opinion. :-)
More About my Match
I wish for a woman with a golden heart, honest, warm and like-minded. Someone who has her own mind, touches my heart and mind as well as I want to be same for her, make her happy. She should have a life and goals to achieve but not obsessed with career only so she would have nothing else in her life.
Kisses or hugs make feel warm when it is cold outside, sometimes a look or a touch can tell more than thousand words. I wish to listen a lot to and talk to the woman who owns my heart, too...on the other hand being silent is good when both feel good with it. Okay, that sounds a bit paradox, I think. It depends on the situation. :-)
I think being interested in each other's personality and what happens in life, what goes on in mind is important (not only "what" but even more "why"). It will help us to improve our relationship and be happy together. Never being too shy to talk when we want but respecting if the other needs time, trusting in each other will make our minds and hearts feel close, never get bored.
Nobody is perfect but I think with the right person on our side we continue finding ways to keep a smile even in darkest times and can improve the situation together, build something good out of it, make everything better and easier.
So, what about you? Just write a message, tell me a bit about yourself so we can continue and see where it leads us to?
Religion
Not religious but accepting and respecting if you are.
Occupation
I am member of city administration and work now in a school as there were too few people for the amount of work. It is stressful but fun to meet and help people of that wide range of ages and sources.
Match Details
- Seeking: Woman | 28-45 yrs
- Located: Anywhere
- For: Long-term Dating
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Never, Rarely, Socially
- Marital Status: Never Married, Divorced, Widowed
- Wants kids: Definitely | Someday | Not Sure
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