Mae_Dahlia: I may look like a fighter, but I am softhearted and integrous.
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My Details
- I am: 36 yr-old woman seeking man, 35-45
- Located in: Tacloban City, Western Visayas, Philippines, SouthEast Asia
- Last online: Online within 2 weeksNew Member
- Height: 5' 2" (157 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Black
- Eye Color: Black
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Education: PhD/Post Doctoral
- Religion: Christian/Catholic
- Occupation: Teacher/Professor
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Occasionally
- Marital Status: Married
- Has kids: Yes, they live with me
- Wants kids: No, and seeking same
- Sign:
Scorpio
More About Me
I am always seen as a "strong and independent woman", maybe because my facial features are not soft and I don't usually seek for help. I am still married, but I want to free myself now from the burdens I have been carrying for 12 years. I am 36 and my husband (hopefully soon-to-be-ex husband) is 31. My first child is not his, since I already had a five-year-old son when we got married in 2012. We have three (3) daughters, and sadly, the second has autism.
Throughout our 12 years of marriage, we fight about MONEY most of the time. He has never been honest about his income and loans - either bank loans or personal loans. It angers me because I feel like I'm being cheated, especially that I would learn about it way too late. He always gave me an alibi that he used the money for the family, but I doubt it because I do note-taking and mental auditing of our weekly finances and expenses. My instinct has been telling me that he used all his income and loans for his family (parents and siblings), or for something else. I have nothing against his family. All is want is HONESTY, RESPECT, and FAITHFULNESS! I want our own family to be his first priority, especially that we have a child with autism. I feel like I'm the only one working and working hard when, in fact, he is also a teacher (a government employee). I feel so tired and suffocated. My life as a mother, student, and college professor is already complicated. He only aggravates my daily struggles, and I'm so sick of it. I have been wanting to get out from this relationship and replace him with someone who makes me happy and healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and physically. I really pray that God will save me from this misery.
More About my Match
I am looking for a very responsible and non-judgmental man who will accept me for who I am and for what I have, especially my four (4) kids. I wish to find someone who is willing to take risks to protect me, who appreciates my value, respects my body, and sees through my mental and emotional needs.. someone who doesn't complicate my life, who can give me both time freedom and financial freedom, who will fully support my career.. and not someone who keeps on giving me stresses, pressures, and burdens, instead.
Thank you for your respect, sincerity, and honesty.
Occupation
I am a college professor in a University here in our place. I have completed both my master's degree and doctorate. Currently, I am pursuing Law studies while juggling my time as a professor and a mother of four (16, 11, 10 and 4).
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