One Night Stand??? (16)

Ok so I was talking to this gu yand he kept asking me when we were going to sleep together and I told him after 3 dates so we went out on three dates and on the 4th date we slept together all he could do afterwords was tell me how good I was and he kept asking me how good he was and I told him he was good and then he took me home and he hasn't called me or texted me or anything since so what does that mean did he lie to me and tell me I was good or was all he wanted me for was a one night stand????????

Yup sounds like all he wanted was a one night stand. If he kept on asking you when are we going to sleep together. That should have been your clue.

I would tend to agree. It ain't like 3 strikes 'n' yer out! It's got to be right for BOTH of you... and there's really no timeframe in that...

Just me 2c.

Ron V.

I know I'm gonna get whipped for this at some point, but I really do believe that it bears saying.

First of all, Let me start with, up North ( where I'm from ) when we refer to a guy / gal's rear end, we call it a "tush" - I have no idea where it came from, it just is.

Having said that, I will venture to say that allthough a guy has one tush, a woman has 2, the one she sits on, and the one above ( her chest )

Here's what I don't get: Women that dress provocatively - that is - showing off their upper tush, and wondering why it is that they seem to attract guys that are only interested in "t its 'n' as s".

I'm saying this in this forum because I'm seeing chevy's latest pic on her profile. She's showing her "upper tush" and wondering why she's only attracting guys interested in getting laid.

GALS, HERE'S A CLUE:

If you want to attract a guy that is INTERESTED IN YOUR MIND, THEN DRESS CONSERVATIVELY and ONLY show off the part you that YOU ARE MOST PROUD OF.

If you're not getting this, then ask a fisherman or a hunter about using THE RIGHT BAIT FOR THE FISH / GAME YOU ARE HUNTING FOR.

just another 2c

Ron V.

Hey Ron. I appreciate the logic of your argument but I've found it doesn't make a large difference in real life. Some men are that way no matter what. The larger question is why do some women continue to be drawn to the wrong types. I hear comments like when are we going to sleep together and the alarm bells go off. Besides, I like being the one to ask! LOL

That might be, but I've always been of the opinion that it's best to MINIMIZE the amount of grief you have to deal with in your life. On the other hand it's usually the women with the lowest cut tops that cry out the most about the wolf part of men



I agree witht his part 100%. I've always believed that it's in the woman's pervue to ask for it, and not the guys.

Ron V.

Yup it seems that's all he wanted. Really try to read into people quicker next time. If on the first date nearly halfway through he asks when we gonna sleep together....then put your guard up

Once there intentions are made and if yours are leaning toward long term then it's best to look else where. just my two cents

you gave him something to look forward too... dont give definate anythings... thats what they want and if you give that to them they will just move on

Yeup,this a**hole def.used ya gal. I'm sorry