.... that in advertising / selling, that the only way to get people to "buy" your "product" (you) is to keep putting your "product" (you) in front of your prospective "customers" (people you are trying to attract).
I'm 42 and pretty much understands what he's saying. That's not to say that I'm looking for an "instant family, just add daddy / hubby", nor would I be looking for a "Brady bunch" situation.
Let me put it like this, a buddy of mine recently moved from Fl., to AK, and soon after married a woman with 4 kids. Now that's quite a bit, and I wish him luck with it, if it works for him, it's just that that kind of thing just isn't for me.
Sorry kiddo, but I don't think I will. You don't like what I have to say, you are more than welcome to solve your own problem, don't come back on the board.
But just as you can't put your hand on my mouth to shut me up, don't think you can do it here.
As it happens, I am looking just as well, you may not like my personality, and I'm not interested in yours either, so stop showing off the kind of bossy personality you have by trying to tell others what to do.
On the other hand, a lot of guys are looking for the one on one relationship with a woman ( like myself ) and not necessarily looking for an " instant family, just add dad ".
I've never been married, nor have I any kids ( that I know of ). But in my opinion: I can see a woman having 1 or 2 kids. 3 just seems too much, and having a woman that is more preocupied with her kids then in trying to make a relationship work. It's understandable, but frustrating to a guy unless he's had kids himself before.
who says you have to "figure them out" ? You do need to get to know each other.. at least have an understanding of each other to be able to communicate on a mutual basis.... but there's nothing to say you have to "figure" each other out???
RE: Is there any women out there that want love?
guess not.... thought I was being useful :)