Real men left??????????? (20)

Are there any real men left in this world that are just plain good Christian gentlemen. Ones that are honest, trustworty and not just looking for a physical relationship or someone who is so physically fit. Some of us would love to be healthier but that was not God's plan for us right now but that doesn't mean we would not support our partner's interest in hobbies and exercise. It just means that maybe we can't be quite as active. When did a relationships stop being about love beyonds ones looks or if they are the best in bed? What happened to "I love you just the way you are."

yes we are out here but 1 thing or another happens i wonder the same thing a good honest woman is what im looking for

I think everyone wonders about this. It the selfish nature of people now...no more pride. They want it all, whether they deserve it or not. Well, I promise there are a few good ones left, they are just very difficult to find. Just like there a couple good women out there too. Most of the good ones are taken though, that I will admit. We just need to have patience...as hard as it is, lol.

from the title I was going to ask you what you meant by "real men", but then you define it in your message.

So, just out of curiousity, if a guy isn't Christian, then he's not a "real man" ?

I would tend to call that narrow minded thinking. But I'm trying to be objective here.

Sounds to me that she isn't implying that a man has to be a Christian to be a good man....just that she personally is looking for a good Christian man.

Nothing wrong with that honey...Good luck to you!

there's a few left, but good luck finding one. the younger women usually wind up not appreciating the good guys, then wind up screwing them up for good sometimes to the point where they give up and just act like other guys.

well, I consider myself a good
man. I also consider myself Christian....but not in the organized, big business sort of way. I treat others with respect and kindness. I provide for and care for my spouse (When married). My children grew up knowing they had two parents that loved them. I have never laid hands on another human being and I adore all God's creatures.

However,..I don't open ladies door, or stand when they enter the room. I never tip my hat! All that went out the window when they decided they want to compete with me in the job market. When women decided they wanted to be treated equally..then that is what they get. Itreat Bobbie Jo the same as Billy Bob...except when in a more close relationship.

Billy Joel sang about this.....then married Christ brinkly....

Who wouldn't love her just the way she is

I am afraid you are not the norm Hightailn...this world has changed, and I only see it going downhill, almost irreversible. My ex was not a gentleman whatsoever...in fact, when he was gone, I hardly noticed, lol. He did an excellent job at me not missing him. I did absolutely everything...down to mowing the yard and taking out the trash (10 years). As a result, I have become VERY independant, and feel strange when someone tries to do something for me. Even being single for a while, I still find it difficult to allow a guy to buy me a drink. Which is stupid, because the last thing I need is another child to care for. Financially, I could care less how a man makes his money or even how much...they simply must be able to care for themselves. That is not too much to ask, and should be assumed, but unfortunately, there are alot of lazy people out there looking for a free ride.

Anyway, good luck to everyone...we need it

This is just too damn complicated! I am all over the place, lol. I still say, it is nice to be alone and find yourself. I just hope when I find someone else, I don't lose myself again.