I might help to remember that everyone has things about themselfs that they are not happy with, it could be looks, personality, or physical etc..
Try not to set their standards so high because you will become your own competition...
I think some flaws/quirks etc in women can be very attractive..
I am not suggesting that you have any but you should think about more of what you want from a partner more so then what they might want at this stage...
RE: Say Something To Someone No Need To Name Names.. Please Be Nice..
Thomas is very well